I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?
Anonymous
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Oct 20, 2018
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You should do what you what to do. Even if that is the right thing or the wrong thing. We all eventually learn from our actions with consequences that we have to face. If you are scared that no one will love you again, you need to love yourself before expecting someone else to love you back. You shouldn’t need to fear the thought of being alone, 7 cups of tea is a great way to communicate with people the problems that you are facing, it’s to lift any weight of your shoulders, we are here for a reason â¤ï¸
Niki0617
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Nov 3, 2018
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First in first, you have to figure out why you want to break up. You should not be in a relationship, because you want someone in life, but you should be in a relationship if you love the person and the person is loving you back. it should be mutual. if one of the two is not there, then it's a triggering point for you to consider what you really want in life. One break up does not mean that you will never have anyone else in life. When the time comes and when you are ready with an open mind to go ahead with a relationship, things will fall in to perspective hopefully. However, you should be open minded as to what you want, how you want it and whether you are ready to accept someone and that you are in love. This is how i feel . :)
Anonymous
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Nov 4, 2018
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If you feel that you want to break up, just do it! Staying in the relationship that makes you unhappy is not a good idea. You should think about yourself and your well-being. You should learn how to love yourself firstly. In the lifetime you can have plenty of different partners, they can always change. But in the end you will always have yourself and you have to learn how to be comfortable with you. It's not a good idea to base your self-esteem on the others. Finally, when you will learn you love yourself the others will love you too :) But the most important is to be ok with yourself :)
Caroline878
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Nov 21, 2018
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Having been in this situation before, I can tell you that I thought exactly the same thing. I can also tell you that this is not the reason to stay in a relationship that you are unhappy in and doesn’t support your growth.
Fear of the unknown doesn’t have to hold you back and over time you will be sure of the right decision to take to support yourself.
Talk to friends and family who will support you through this and seek professional help if needs be.
There is only one you in this world and you deserve to be happy
ImHereAnyway
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Nov 24, 2018
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You should think about the reasons why you want to break up and do what’s best for yourself. You need to look after yourself before you can look after someone else. :) There are so many different kinds of people and loves in this world, if you are open to it you will find love. Sometimes it happens when you least expect it, but remember it’s imprtant to take some time for yourself too start by loving yourself and everything else will follow. If you have support from friends and family members lean on them and you always have 7 cups.
Anonymous
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Dec 13, 2018
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Love will always be there. But if you don't want to be with him. Clearly he isn't the right person for you. You will be okay. A relationship should add to you happiness. Not be the only reason for you being happy. And love will come to you when you least expect it. And when you you will know that everything you have been through made you the person you are today. The person who deserves love.
Please don't leave yourself on a relationship that you don't want to be in.
To quote a weird so "there's plenty more fist I'm the sea!"
Hope this helps
Stay strong!
haveyoumetJuliet
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Dec 16, 2018
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hmm okay, you want to break up but you're scared that no one will ever love you again. Is that what hinders you from breaking up? Oh sweetie, break-ups are really a hurtful process. But staying in a relationship because you're scared that no one will ever love you again, is more painful in the long process. For me, if the relationship isn't doing good to me and doesn't make me happy anymore no matter how hard we try, I'll leave and break up. Let's not forget that we own ourselves. We are responsible for our own happiness. We are responsible to feel that we truly love ourselves. I am encouraging self-love because when we have this kind of love to ourselves, we fear less of not being loved by others because we know that someone cares for us, someone loves us truly and that someone can be our own selves. And when we have that kind of love, it'll overflows and then we can give it right to others too.
Anonymous
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Dec 23, 2018
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Follow your gut. I cannot emphasize this enough. If you want to break up then break up. Don't stay with someone you don't love out of fear that you won't be loved again because I think just about anyone can find love again. Its also just not a great reason to stay with someone you don't love any longer. I would for sure break up with them and try not to worry about the future because worrying doesn't do any good. I am learning this myself so i know its easier said than done but even still, try not to worry about things that you can't change. Best of luck to you!
Anonymous
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Mar 11, 2019
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Honestly, love comes at unexpected times my friend. You lose, and love- and life goes on. People come and go like the wind, but sometimes they stay. If this person isn’t right for you, you have to let them go. Don’t worry about not finding love again, because you will. Love comes when you least expect it, until then just focus on yourself and your own happiness. People focus too much energy on getting love from other people they forget to love themselves. I don’t know who you are, but I can assure you that you will be loved someday by somebody who deserves you. So make the choices that will make you happy, and lead you to the best you.
Anonymous
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Mar 13, 2019
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This is just something that you have been conditioned to think by the world around you, and maybe even whoever you're dating! It's a difficult thing to remind yourself of, but you are not unlovable, and you will find the right person. Just the fact that you are in a relationship now means that you are, of course, lovable. There are plenty of people who love you, like family and friends, so why is it crazy to think that someone could love you in a romantic way? It is important not to stay in a relationship that you don't want to be in, no matter what.
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