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I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

Profile: Eryaenn
Eryaenn on Aug 1, 2018
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You should do what you want to do! With close to eight billion people on this little blue planet, I'm absolutely sure you'll find plenty who love you. You should never settle or stay where you don't want to be out of fear, this is your life and you're the only one who can choose what to make it. It may not be immediately, but somewhere down the line you'll find someone much better. We support you, go for it!
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Profile: Sweetieangel
Sweetieangel on Aug 2, 2018
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First you love yourself then see all will love you so much and you are confident with you so make strong
Profile: Nichole121002
Nichole121002 on Aug 2, 2018
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There is someone for everyone❤Don't go looking for love too much....let it come to you and one day you'll find yourself enjoying life with your soulmate forever ❤
Profile: ElHelper
ElHelper on Aug 8, 2018
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Break up, let it happen. If they are not the one, they are not the one. That means when you break upp the one is more able to sweep you off your feet :)
Profile: RachaelEmma
RachaelEmma on Aug 10, 2018
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I understand breaking up is difficult, I've always found it really hard. Although it often seems that it will be impossible to find love again, from my experience this is never the case. I've been in the same situation in the past and now I'm with someone else who loves me and I'm very happy with him. You've found love once and there's no reason why someone else will not love you in the future. You understand your situation better than anyone else and only you can decide what is best for you. Although it can be scary, it may be worse for you to remain in a realtionship you are not happy in out of fear.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 11, 2018
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Listen to your heart, do what you think is best for you. If you don’t want to be in the relationship, you should probably end it. Not only can you hurt yourself by staying but you can also hurt the other person.
Profile: KindSoundMel
KindSoundMel on Aug 12, 2018
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Fear of the future and the unknown is a normal experience. Many people feel scared they will never be loved again when they end a relationship. Whenever I break up with someone, I focus a lot on self-love and care. I'll get a massage, I'll have a spa day, I'll spend more time with friends. I remind myself that as long as I love myself, I will be attracting the right type of people. It is up to you whether you give into the fear, work on your relationship, or give yourself the chance to meet someone who will love you and you will never want to break up with.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 22, 2018
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Don't be scared to break up. It shows that he/she wasn't the right one and there is someone better. Even if you don't find anyone within a year or however long and you start believing there is no one for you, there are people (and foods) that will keep you company. There has to be a reason for the break up anyway. If you have the feelings to break up, then do it regardless of the fear that's holding you back. He/she is obviously not the one. It'll be okay, again people will comfort you and assure you there will be someone else.
Profile: JackShepard77
JackShepard77 on Aug 22, 2018
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The first step is aswer to yourself what do you feel. If it’s the right moment to take this important choice. If you are for ex. Angry, depressed, anx, etc etc. For take this important decision you must be calm. My opinion this is the base of every choise. Later you can examine your relationship and the problem inside the couple. Many people let them take hands to mental distortion or strange mind set and shoot again her/him partner. For this resaons i say you: stay calm! Try to see your relationship like a new reletionship, in many way... forget the past fighting and imagine what happened if she/he is clean! You risk to search love again and again and again like addicted! I hope that i can help you. Let me know.
Profile: AnnaBanana2420
AnnaBanana2420 on Oct 11, 2018
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There is no point in going on in a relationship you don’t like. You are better off ending it, and then going out and putting yourself out there. Make some new friends, talk to people you have not talked to in a while. Get to know people, and you will find the right person. Almost no one can or will go through life with out finding someone who means something to them. It may even just be a really close friend, maybe that would be enough. Whatever happens, you should still end the previous relationship if that’s what you want to do. Don’t let the scared hold you back. You’ll never get across the ocean if you keep turning back towards the shore. :)
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