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I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?

Profile: KindPapaya
KindPapaya on Jul 5, 2017
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I think after breakup we will go through various emotions and phases but after those phases we should learn how to love ourselves how to make ourselves happy so we could love others and then others can love us too.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 7, 2017
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If you want to break up, then break up. You should be scarred that Mr. Right is out there and you won't find him because you're in a relationship with Mr. Wrong.
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Anonymous on Jul 9, 2017
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If you really want to break up, then break up. You shouldn't just be with someone if you feel that you'll never be loved or wanted again because that is not true. There will always be someone interested in you and you'll find that special someone.
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Anonymous on Jul 9, 2017
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love will find you no matter how scared you are currently. So u should break up or not is still your call but always listen to your heart
Profile: Charlottewxo
Charlottewxo on Jul 16, 2017
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If you're not happy in your relationship, you need to end it. You will move on and you will find love again, but that shouldn't be your main focus. A breakup should always lead to you spending more time on yourself, so don't force yourself to search for love instantly after you break up with said partner. Love will come, don't worry.
Profile: Teddster
Teddster on Jul 18, 2017
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Learn to love yourself. In time, others will too. But first you must love yourself, find out who your true self is and once you're at peace with who you are, everything else will fall right into place.
Profile: boboshopo
boboshopo on Jul 19, 2017
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You should never feel scared to leave someone, take a deep breath and try to relax, you will find love again, trust me, I know.
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Anonymous on Jul 19, 2017
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Being without a relationship is always better than being in a harmful one, especially in the long term. Being scared nobody will love you is a valid fear, but not one that is realistic or constructive. Make sure to spend time on yourself, and if somebody comes along that you do want to be with, that's a wonderful added bonus, but not a necessity.
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Anonymous on Aug 9, 2017
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Firstly you need to understand that you have worth and you will be loved again. Don't let loneliness cause you to stay in a relationship because ultimately that could make you feel even more alone than if you left the relationship.
Profile: Ken444
Ken444 on Aug 13, 2017
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If you are in a relationship that is undesirable or failing. One of the first things you need to remember is that just because the love in your current situation has faded or went out the door. You should never use that experience to base any future relationship on. If your current partner doesn't love you or respect you anymore, this does not mean that there isn't someone else out there that will. Being in a bad relationship and trying to maintain it just for the sake of being in a relationship can sometimes be detrimental to future relationships. If you have tried to fix your current situation to no avail, then it's time to move on. Of course there is someone else out there for you, there is someone out there for all of us. However, you don't have to rush into finding that person right away. Take a little time for yourself. Get to know you a little better. Renew your self confidence. Then once you feel ready, get back out there.
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