I still have dreams about my ex, sometimes they're good and sometimes they're bad. What does that mean?

It would mean that there are still thoughts of your ex that float around in your subconscious. It would appear as though you are analyzing their good and their bad characteristics, assessing your relationship and your breakup. This is normal after a breakup, as your brain comes to terms with the summation of who they were as a person. It is also common to assess the reasons for your breakup. The fact that you are experiencing both positive and negative memories means that there were probably good and bad aspects of your ex and your relationship. This is preferable to only remembering the good, or only remembering the bad.

It most probably means that you miss the person or you have some unresolved issues with him/her. Dreams in their simplest form are manifestations of your minds desires. Talking to the person about it could help give your mind some relief. If the bad dreams occur more than the good dreams, it hints that you may still have have some remaining issues with the person. Talking it out with them maybe the best thing to do. If in case they do not wish to contact you, try talking to your friends or family about it. They might be able to help you resolve your unrest.

I think dreams show us the thoughts in our subconscious. As they are an ex there are good and bad parts to every relationship. It seems your mind is just processing things. Eventually you will move on and these dreams will go. If you are concerned about them it can be helpful to write them down to work out if there is any running themes, this can help you process difficult feelings. But ultimately it does not do well to dwell on dreams, as they are purely subconscious thoughts. And we’ve all had those weird dreams that make no sense to anyone

It's because of memories. Every memories you had with him, bad or good, will be always in your mind, even when you already move on. It's not bad to have dream about your ex sometimes, what's bad if you still like your ex even when your ex already move on. Sometimes you miss the memories, but not the person. You can't erase memories that you have with your ex. The only you can do is enjoy it. Don't think too deep about it, or guess the meaning behind it, and don't make those dreams feel like an enlightment. Memories will last forever, dear..

I think when any kind of relationship ends, being either romantic/friendship or anything we will always have feelings and emotions that stay with us and I think you having dreams about your ex is your mind and body's way of getting over it and moving on. Coming to terms with things can be really hard and sometimes can take a little time. Maybe you could try and sit whilst you're awake and think things through. How are you feeling about the relationship you guys had now? Do you miss him/her? Are you wishing maybe you guys could work things out? Did they hurt you in some kind of way?

It's really hard to get rid of 100 percent to someone whom you spent with so many hours, days and even years. It is very normal to dream of your past memories with him. Thing that matters the most to you is not about good and bad dream. But you need to understand not to sink in yourself and feel deeply with those dreams such as "is he ok?" Or "is it a sign of he is missing me". Kindly leave past at past if it can't be worked out at all. Being stuck in the past will stop you seeing better beginnings ahead. However, I am very glad to know that you do not hate him cause you are telling me about him. If someone hates their exs, they won't bother telling this to others. It's the best way to live without holding any grudge on anyone.

It means that sometimes you subconsciously think about him and that is alright as we do think about people we care about or who we cared about in the past perhaps you may want to figure out why is it that you are thinking about him and that will help you reflect on your feelings towards the dreams you have about him. If you feel like you need to vent or have unresolved thoughts confide in a friend and tell them about your feelings to get some perspective as well. And If you feel like you can't do that talk to us at 7 cups we are here to listen

Normally we see dreams of people who we think about a lot It doesn't matter if the dream is good or bad. Or you might be seeing the dream because your ex is demonstrating a feeling or emotion that you want or have or miss. Anyways don't think about it so much. It might not even mean anything. Remember that your ex is your ex for a reason. You both went your separate ways. It is best if you move on and find someone else. Don't think about your ex anymore.

To me this means that they are still on your mind. It might be that they are subconsciously on your mind but you are thinking about them nonetheless. You were with this person so you connected with them at some point and that means it means something or meant something to you. I don't think it is necessarily a good or bad thing. It is just a thing and that's okay. If you just recently broke up then this is something more common but if you have been broken up for awhile now it is still "normal" just not as common. I think its safe to say that this will go away in time. Good luck with it! -LC

It’s typical to dream about your ex. You’re merely managing these images and memories as a way to fill in some of the gaps you might be missing as a person. However bad the experience was with your ex; your brain is utilizing it to develop. There is no exact way to adequately explain dreams or the chosen people who manifest within them. Our brains use dreaming as a way to recover from stress, past traumas, or to make sense of events we may not fully grasp. Your ex may also play a role in your life, and you yourself may not barely grasp it. This is partially anticipated to psychological habit, partially due to what your ex represents to you, and partially due to an attempt to heal unresolved issues like the reason for the breakup.