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I regret breaking up with my ex. What should I do?

Profile: gracefullhand
gracefullhand on Apr 20, 2023
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Feeling regret after a breakup is a common experience, and it can be difficult to know what to do next. Here are some steps you can take: 1. Take some time to reflect on your feelings: It's important to process your emotions and try to understand why you feel regretful. Are you missing your ex, or are you just feeling lonely? Are you idealizing the relationship, or do you genuinely believe that you made a mistake? 2. Be honest with yourself: Before you reach out, be honest with yourself about your motivations for wanting to get back together. Are you hoping to fill a void or do you genuinely believe that you and your ex have a chance at a happy, healthy relationship? 3. Take it slow: If your ex is receptive to the idea of getting back together, take things slow and focus on rebuilding your connection. Remember to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and concerns. 4. Consider seeking support: Going through a breakup and the subsequent feelings of regret can be challenging. Consider reaching out to a therapist or support group like 7 Cup of Tea, to help you process your emotions and navigate the complexities of getting back together with an ex. 5. Consider reaching out to your ex: If you feel like you made a mistake and want to reconcile, it might be worth reaching out to your ex to express your feelings. However, be prepared for the possibility that they may not want to get back together. Ultimately, the decision to get back together with an ex is a personal one, and there is no right or wrong answer. It's important to take the time to reflect on your feelings and make a decision that is right for you.
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Anonymous on Jul 2, 2016
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I think you should evaluate why did you break up and if the person is worth trying again. Why do you care about that person? Does that person makes you a better you?
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Anonymous on Jul 9, 2016
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Try to talk to your ex to see if ya'll can move on and try to explain why you did it in the first place.
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Anonymous on Jul 23, 2016
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Reconsidering the reasons you had for the break-up in the first place would make a good first step. If you really feel they weren't valid and that you were wrong or acting impulsively than I guess all you can do is sit that person down and honestly tell them how you feel. There's still not much we can do if the other person decides not to give us a second chance..
Profile: amemerica
amemerica on Jul 28, 2016
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Think about why you broke up with this person. If it was for a reason you don't believe was worth the falling out, you can talk to them and discuss what went wrong in your relationship, and see if you could try the relationship again. If they disagree, it's okay to feel upset, but you should know that it's normal. If they agree, be sure to go over what should change in the relationship so a problem like this can be successfully avoided.
Profile: Ashoulder91
Ashoulder91 on Jul 31, 2016
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The first step would be self reflection on why you broke up with them to begin with, and determine if it's the route you really want to take. If you still want them back. Then you'll have to apologize and attempt to make things right if they give you the chance.
Profile: Musicl0vr
Musicl0vr on Jul 31, 2016
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Talk it out. It's okay to reach out and talk about your feelings. First, recall your reasons for breaking up in the first place. Avoid any situations which make you feel badly. Remember, you left for a reason. If you cannot come to terms with it still, ask them to meet up and talk.
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Anonymous on Aug 3, 2016
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Think about why you guys broke up and if the reason is still there. If you still want to give it another go then organise a time to meet up and maybe bring it up over a cup of coffee.
Profile: SomeRandomNiceGuy
SomeRandomNiceGuy on Aug 3, 2016
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Is he/she already seeing someone? If yes, then just accept it and move on. If no, then try talking to him/her about what you feel.
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Anonymous on Aug 5, 2016
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You should talk to your ex see if he still feels the same about you even if you do you regret it it may have been the right thing to do
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