I love two different people. What should I do?

You know people say if you love the second, then go for the second because if you really loved the first then there might not have been a second. But i don't think that's how it works, you know. What if you don't know who you loved first? Or what if you really are sure that you love both of them equally? You know i read in a book where this guy loved two girls too and I remember that i found his way of figuring his actual love out good. He said that he really looked at the girls and tried to find out the things that the other girl didn't have. He imagined himself leaving without the girls and their unique traits and he asked himself if he could live without it? It was then he figured out what girl he could never really let go no matter what. I read this another quote you can say on instagram. It said imagine yourself totally drunk in a room with all your exe's, almost's and past crushes. You can put the people you love in here. And ask yourself who would you go to when you will be drunk and not in your right state. Honey,deep down you already know the answer. I knew my answer the moment I read the quote. You just have to accept your choice.

Then love two different people. There's nothing wrong with that, you can love as many people as you want because you can afford in your heart to care for them. The dilemma is the strength to be honest and to be able to decide what is the correct way to go about it. If all parties can consent to polyamory, it may be worth treading slowly, but if that kind of lifestyle is unsuitable for your personality and the people you value then you may need to access. No case is the same. Sometimes we love multiple people because we are able to see the good in them or have different parts of yourself connected.

I must say, that's quite a difficult situation! Maybe you could try envisioning a future with each of them. Who do you see yourself with? And ask yourself, who is more likely to make you happy in the long run? What is it that you love about them? Who is actually good for you, who brings out the best in you, your best qualities? Compare them based on questions like these. But don't stress too much about making the decision, life has a funny way of sorting things out. I wish you all the best and good luck in finding out!

You should take a moment (a long moment) to sit down. And think about your situation. Think about who you loved first and why you fell in love with them. Compare them to the other. Notice anything different you fell in love with. If this is an "I can only choose 1" situation. Choose who makes you happier as a person. Not who you don't want to hurt the most. You should focus on how these people make you feel instead of how much you don't want to hurt them or ruin a relationship. You can always offer to remain friends.

Being in a relationship with someone else doesn’t make you exempt from feeling something another person, unplanned or otherwise. You can be passionately in love with someone while you’re in a relationship with another, relationship is a logical choice. Falling in love is involuntary. It’s an arrow to the heart, you can’t help it. This often happens when your relationship has become more of a friendship, so you fall in love with someone who re-ignites the dormant passion within you. Oftentimes, a long-term relationship can become more like a sibling relationship, and the sexual connection fades if the couple don’t know how to keep it alive,

Figure out who you have a deeper meaningful connection with that is beyond physical attraction. Look at common interests and goals. Look into if their common purpose aligns with yours. Are they people who can be able to help you achieve when you set to work together to achieve a common goal. Look at the character when deciding between two people. Put love aside and look into how they react to different situations aor respond to certain issues you will be able to gauge how they think and behave towards issues. Above all listen to your intuition you can never go wrong with it.

I always supported the saying that "If you had really been in love with the first person, you would not have fallen for the second one" Maybe that is taking it too easy, but something did draw you away from the first person to the second, right? Please, be open and honest, do not just go behind peoples backs. You just need to find our what is right for you and your life. Making a pro and con list sounds stupid, I know, but looking at it from a distance and more objective point of view might also help. Evaluate how you feel and how they make you feel.

Tell each of them about the other one, their response will help you chose the right one. And if it still doesn't work, give them the worst possible imaginary scenarios and know what they'll do. It will help you. The best thing that can happen is both of them agree on being with you while knowing about each other. Try that, in real-life scenarios, we sometimes need to make hard choices and sometimes things work the way we want it to work. In both cases, we got to make it work somehow because this is life, all about making things work and happiness

Try to find out which is a lover and which is a best friend. Hang out with each one for 3 consecutive days. on the 7th day. Evaluate, How were you feeling when you were hanging out with the first person? How were you feeling when you were hanging out with the second person? What are the merits and flaws of each person? Which person do you feel like you were more compatible with? How would you feel spending the rest of your life with the first person? How would you feel about spending the rest of your life with the second person?

In my opinion, if you fall in love with two people, maybe the second person you fall in love with is true love. Because if you like the first one enough, you won't like the second one. Maybe it would be better to end the first relationship tactfully.I have to say that falling in love with two people at the same time is very painful, but believe me, I can understand your pain. Maybe it will make you feel more comfortable. But believe me, in fact, you know from the bottom of your heart which one you like best. Although these two people may be very nice, life is full of choices. I hope you can be happy.