I love two different people. What should I do?

Sometimes it helps doing a list with pros and cons from each person and then you can evaluate wich one is the one with who you want to be

Go for the one who likes you....because that will be good for both of you.........and I think you will be happy

You should find who you want to be with after you find the right one you will know it.you will feel.

It's easier said than done, but choose the one that brings the best out of you, which means the one that is kind, sweet, and warm with you. It is easy to confuse what we want over what we need. Generally, a want in a person could be seen as "they are pretty, they are rich, and they are popular." We see what we wish we could be and we assume that having them brings us closer to that ideal; however, that is very rarely the case. When we are with someone who is kind to us, understanding, compassionate, transparent, and honest, that person easily reflects the ideals of a healthy relationship. It is better to choose someone that makes us smile and is unpopular, than to be with someone who makes us cry and is popular.

Don’t commit to one person until you’ve gotten to know them both in a better aspect. Go on dates with both, learn about their lives, and make a better judgement call. It can be overwhelming at times but it’ll all work itself out. You’ll be able to figure it out. Sometimes it’ll just click and you’ll have a realization as to whom to be with. It’s never easy loving more than one person. You just have to figure it out. I don’t have all the answers, and my advice may not always work, but it can help just a little.

Hi, this question is something close to my heart. currently, I am in love with a guy who says he loves both his girlfriend and me. And I can't quite understand it, to be honest, I don't believe it is possible to love two different people at the same time equally. but I think, a person can be confused about what he wants or does not really know what he is looking for & you might like some qualities from one person and other qualities from the other person. but none of them are what you are looking for. if you love someone enough, if your love is right then your heart should know. but if you have to ask other people on what to do you are insulting the people you claim to love.

I think it is important to take time for yourself and think about what you want. The first thing to think about in this situation isn't what to "do," but how you are feeling and the ways that you can start to cope with and understand your feelings. Overall, you are the person who knows what is best for you, so taking that time to think about yourself and your feelings is crucial in being able to come to conclusions about your life. All in all, just understand that feelings are an extremely complicated thing and you are not a bad person for loving two different people.

Access how much you want to be with each person, things such as what you like about one person versus what you like about the other. Although you should also make a list of what you don’t like and your doubts about a relationship with said person. Also consider your personal relationship with each person, which one you’re closer to. One of the most important things you can do is trust your gut. You like both people.Now find out which one you like more as well as which one makes you feel safer, more welcomed, and who you’re more comfortable with.

Be honest with them both. Open communication between the two parties is best,sometimes. Be honest with your self. Maybe stop seeing both for a bit,so you can do some self-reflecting. It is nice that you love two people,we are suppose to love everyone. The problem lies when, want a more committed relationship. If your having issues with picking which one to chose,your not a lone,most people have problems with picking the right one. If you need more help,and tips 7cups has trained listeners. Hopefully they can help with your problem of picking the right person. But it is up to you,to pick the one you want to pick. A listener might be able to give you some direction in how to pick,the right one. I hope this is helpful.

Think about what you want for your future, who you want to be there with you and what you need to do to get there. If you want to be with both of them then how could that work in a healthy way? If you want to be in a monogamous relationship what do you want it to look like, and which person fits that better? Listen to your heart, but also consider the wants and needs of the other people involved. No matter what you do someone will be affected in some way. So be ready to own up to that.