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I love two different people. What should I do?

Profile: SitaV
SitaV on Jun 14, 2018
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Love is as unique as each person who has the joy to experience it. It sounds like you may be polyamorous. If that is something you identify with, you are not alone. There are many people, like you, who feel love for multiple people. Take some time to think about what an ideal situation looks like for you and be as open and honest about your needs and wants to the people involved. It may not always work out the way you want it to, but stay true to yourself and your feelings.
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Profile: Alidoruta2help
Alidoruta2help on Jun 21, 2018
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Is it really love? Equal? What do you get from the situation? Love isn't supposed to be selfish and when we give our complete self to someone, that is love. Maybe you are giving just a part of you to one and another part to the other. Maybe you are still trying to figure out your own worth. Pay attention to the thoughts inside your head.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 22, 2018
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As Johnn Depp said: "choose the second, if you truly loved the first you wouldn't fall for the second".
Profile: wonderfullSummer84
wonderfullSummer84 on Jun 29, 2018
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Well, first off you should try to accept the fact that you are probably poly. Then talk to them, and tell them the truth. Ask if they would like to both be in a relationship with you at once, if they’re uncomfortable with it then figure out other solutions together, or have them fight to the death. Either way works.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 3, 2018
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The first thing to do is understand it will be difficult for them to adjust. However it is natural to have a crush on multiple people. If you are dating them both you should probably tell them though. But remember, don't freak out about this. You can do it!
Profile: ComfortingTaylor44
ComfortingTaylor44 on Jul 6, 2018
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Make a pros and cons list about both. Compare your interests and what you want in a partner. Make sure you are completely sure before you choose.
Profile: Maryholmes44
Maryholmes44 on Jul 15, 2018
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See which one loves you the most. Loving someone is easy but getting the same love back is not easy at all. So i would suggest you to find the one who loves YOU and respects you the most.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 15, 2018
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You could make a list of pros and cons. Focus on the little things because everything matters when making hard decisions
Profile: crushinIn003seconds
crushinIn003seconds on Jul 18, 2018
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This can be very difficult to handle and there's a saying "If you really loved that person then you wouldn't have fallen for the other one" - Try to figure out if it is genuine, for either person. Are you happy with them? How happy are you? Can you see yourself being with them long term? Think about your happiness, your health and you first before anything, think the long-term effect, not the short term one.
Profile: DrFrank
DrFrank on Jul 25, 2018
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Take a step back, go away for a little bit, then see who, out of the two will come and contact you, versus the other one who contacts you less. This will show who would be more devoted to you.
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