I love two different people. What should I do?
Tom2G
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Nov 26, 2017
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It depends on the situation. Do these people love you? In that case, the worst thing you can do is wait. It's a choice you need to make, and the longer you let things fester, the more you and the other two people may get hurt.
ListenerM22
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Nov 29, 2017
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Don't tell them it could complicate things, take some time to figure out their goods and bads and what you like about them
Anonymous
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Dec 6, 2017
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Think about the future. Who do you see in your future? Who do you want to be with in your future? Believe me, I was and still am in that situation. I wish I knew better. I wish I gave myself that advice I just gave you. Think about it. The future.
Anonymous
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Dec 9, 2017
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This is a hard experience, and I am sorry to hear about your conflict. You need to consider the feelings of these people also, as this has a negative effect on everyone involved.
Anonymous
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Jan 5, 2018
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There is nothing wrong in loving both of them as long as it doesn't hurt anyone of you. If you have to make a choice then think about things that are most important to you in life and what are your expectations from your partner? Take your time, make a list and decide with whom you can be happier.
Anonymous
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Jan 10, 2018
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Make sure that it is love, actually, as many people mix such emotions up. Next, figure out who you love more, logically, this would be the second person, but it really depends on the overall situation. No matter what, you need to be honest with yourself, and honest with the person you don't love as much. It's best to break it off with that person as it will be hurtful for both of you if it continues.
neverendingWillow31
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Jan 24, 2018
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Spend time with both of them and write a list about the pros and cons of both and see who you think suites you better.
Anonymous
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Jan 28, 2018
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It is okay to love two people but its important to be honest to them and to yourself. Do not lead someone on if you can avoid it.
calmingMist38
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Jan 31, 2018
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If you can’t have both people in your life, perhaps the real measure of your love for them is to let them both go. Accepting that you cannot choose, you set them free and if one comes back to you it was meant to be. If neither come back then perhaps you are meant to be with someone new who you grow to love on such a deep level that you only have eyes for them.
Anonymous
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Feb 1, 2018
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You need to talk to both of them and figure out who you have more in common with and who feels more strongly about you.
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