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I love two different people. What should I do?

Profile: smoltimes
smoltimes on Sep 28, 2016
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Do not commit to either of them, that is not fair to them. Take time to truly think over if you really love both of them. Spend time with each of them and decide which you value most and what one you want to be with in a long term relationship.
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Profile: Helpinghands10
Helpinghands10 on Sep 28, 2016
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Well love can be hard sometimes and the right path to go is to just follow your true hearts desire and love them as much as you can
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 3, 2016
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I think you're confused between two personalities. I'm sure you understand that you should probably give yourself sometime to think what's best for you.
Profile: MachineGKyla
MachineGKyla on Oct 14, 2016
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Tell them both how you feel. However loves you will stay, whoever doesn't will leave. It's hard, trust me I know but It's work itself out
Profile: GeorgeAtlas17
GeorgeAtlas17 on Oct 23, 2016
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Love has more than one definition. Figure out what do you love about each of them...what aspect of being with them...If you had to see yourself 5 years from now, who do you see yourself with in love and who do you see yourself staying in touch with...a friend you can count on...
Profile: JaneMays
JaneMays on Nov 3, 2016
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The best thing you can do is to go for a little getaway with only yourself and figure out who is the one you love, and who is the one you just feel similar. There can only be one that is your soul partner. They to create some space for yourself and just focus on the feelings you have for each person. Than, think of the ways you feel next to them. Meditation and mindfulness may be your first bricks on this road.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 4, 2016
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Choose the newest one. This person seems to have more to offer to you, and your mind needs to be with the person that has not been overruled by anyone else.
Profile: Lizzenah1
Lizzenah1 on Nov 17, 2016
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Omg. Well this is something I know way way way too well. Love is such a tricky thing. It fragile but unbreakable, it's harmless but painful, its vast and knows no limits; which is exactly why I think that loving two people is posisble. my advice to you is you should look deeper into the way you love each of them and the reasons. And if it comes to you making a choice....... always choice the one that makes you happy both mentally and emotionally. Don't limit or settle reach and love.
Profile: Ladipsutes
Ladipsutes on Nov 17, 2016
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Let me quote Johnny Depp “if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.” I think this quote just says it all. And if your first instinct was, no this isn't right. Then you probaly already knew that you love the first one more.
Profile: Gentledecent
Gentledecent on Feb 5, 2017
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I would search your feelings. Think about whether you would prefer a monogamous or polyamorous relationship, and don't decide on pursuing either of them until you have done so. Then, I'd suggest simply exploring your feelings and going from there.
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