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I love two different people. What should I do?

Profile: shoshho
shoshho on Jul 29, 2016
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I think you should choose one because I don't think it's possible going on with life with two people plus there is a huge chance you will be hurting one of them, so why? better to spare the pain right?
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Profile: superpoppy14
superpoppy14 on Jul 31, 2016
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It's important that you're honest with both people, but also be honest with yourself. Give yourself time to think deeply about all of your feelings. What would you like in life? Would you like a relationship with one of these people, or would you prefer to stay single? Once you understand your own feelings, you can speak to them and work from there.
Profile: AzureSea12
AzureSea12 on Aug 1, 2016
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Don't think that you are one and only. There many people experiencing that dilemma. I know the feeling. But maybe -if you cannot find your way out- you can create a chart and write what you like and dislike about them. I think this is considerable.
Profile: freshFriend18
freshFriend18 on Aug 3, 2016
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hmmm ... have fun! Do not be afraid to want to be loved and appreciated. Sometimes what is good for us - we do not want and that's human nature. Sometimes we do choose the wrong thing because it is not important to be right its important to be happy
Profile: RaCat
RaCat on Aug 12, 2016
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I was there... It's really difficult situation, but you need to find a way to understand which one you like more - maybe by spending time with both of them and looking which day you liked more or maybe making a list with plus and minus. I know it's hard but you must choose one, because if you are not choosing you are hurting both of them.
Profile: scenicTea81
scenicTea81 on Aug 13, 2016
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I believe that love should not be defined by a singular person, as I love my family. But I also believe that love should come from the heart, not persuasion.
Profile: Grangs
Grangs on Aug 14, 2016
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Choose the one you feel in love with the second twice. If you truly loved the first one then you wouldn't love the other one.
Profile: slightlyodd99
slightlyodd99 on Aug 14, 2016
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Well perhaps you see character traits in both people that you like, and that's okay, but for yourself, maybe try and take a step back and re-evaluate. Perhaps it isn't about the character traits but the history of one person. Or maybe just leave it, and take some time for yourself up until someone else shows up
Profile: easylistener22
easylistener22 on Aug 25, 2016
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You need to think the positive and negatives of both and see what one is more suited for you. Deep down only you know what you want and how you feel so take your time and the right decision will come to you good luck x
Profile: Melanie015
Melanie015 on Aug 25, 2016
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As great people have said ' If you really loved the first person so much you wouldnt fall for someone else'
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