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I cheated, should I break up with my partner?

Profile: InsideCriminalMinds18
InsideCriminalMinds18 on Mar 29, 2015
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You need to ask yourself if you're going to cheat again. If you can't be loyal to them, then maybe you should consider ending the relationship you have with them.
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Profile: HWK
HWK on Apr 2, 2015
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Try to talk about it with your partner, why did you do it? Unless you don't feel for that person anymore. Talking about problems is the best thing you can do.
Profile: OceanLove60
OceanLove60 on Apr 17, 2015
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No. You need to forgive yourself and start talking with your partner. An affair isn't the problem. It is only a symptom of a problem. Need to talk with the partner about what you need and your relationship .
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 26, 2015
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Not your decision, but I'd say leave it up to your partner whether or not to forgive you and give you another chance or give it up to them to see if they shall end it if they feel uncomfortable being with you from now on.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 9, 2015
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Communication is something that is very important in a relation so from experience I think telling your partner about it is very important. You can then talk to him about it and see where things go. Also it is important to ask yourself if you still want to be with that person or not?
Profile: clh2os
clh2os on Dec 17, 2015
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A quote that has been floating around the internet speaks volumes to this situation: When in love with two people, pick the second, because if the first was good enough--there wouldn't be number two. Follow your heart. Ask yourself what was missing. Is it something you and your partner can fix? Ultimately, you need to discover your own truth--be honest and it will play out. There will be hurt--but it's better than deepseeded resentment.
Profile: mirrorwriting
mirrorwriting on Dec 30, 2015
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Before you decide about a break up, you should first try to listen to your heart and ask yourself what is the reason for you cheating - could it be that you are unhappy with your relationship? Why? How can it be repaired? The second step - talk about it openly and honestly with your partner. It will be hard and it will most probably hurt, but a good relationship is an honest one. This way whatever decision you will make, you will know that you did your best to stay truth with both yourself and your partner.
Profile: musicalDew34
musicalDew34 on Jan 7, 2016
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If you regret doing that then you must apolize to your partner and make them belive that you wont do that again...but once the trust is lost its gone forever...they will never see you the same way they used to see
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 9, 2016
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Just think one more time whether you want to cheat your partner in future. If you are willing to stay loyal for your partner from now on, you do not have to let your partner anything about it.
Profile: TheDarkKnight
TheDarkKnight on Feb 7, 2016
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If you cheat after being in a relationship, that is not fair at all but if you ask to break up or not then it is depending on your partner and situation. 1. If you are feeling Good after cheating or enjoyed it then break up immediately but if you are feeling guilty and sad then 2. If you love and respect your partner a bit then you should confess it that you cheated. If your partner can forgive you then fine otherwise move on. (All the answer and thinking is according to LoveApple, it's my thinking so if it hurts anyone I'm sorry, don't listen)
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