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I cheated, should I break up with my partner?

Profile: Doc3Mar
Doc3Mar on Jan 7, 2016
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Well you should definitely bring it up to your partner. Tell them what happened and how you feel. Listen to them and how they feel. Some couples work through cheating, it will be hard to regain their trust and confidence but there is no reason to jump the gun.
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Profile: ScarfyMia
ScarfyMia on Jan 8, 2016
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No. Talking to him may bring a better option that just plain breaking up, specially if you love them
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 8, 2016
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I don't recommend that you break up with your partner unless you have the urge to do it constantly. If you cheated and you know that it will be a one time thing then I suggest that you talk it out with your partner.
Profile: pirateofmyship
pirateofmyship on Jan 8, 2016
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No. You should try to sit with your partner and engage in a truthful conversation and come clean about your feelings, the problems you are facing and most important what motivated you to commit that act. They may not understand why you did it but sometimes the truth is more helpful and leaves your conscience in peace.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 9, 2016
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Maybe first ask yourself why you cheated. Are you dissatisfied with your current relationship? Maybe it is a sign that you need something different in your life. Is the problem something that could be helped by communicating it to your partner? If so, try coming clean, exploring the parts of the relationship that you feel need to be worked on, and maybe it will help you strengthen your relationship.
Profile: BronaghC
BronaghC on Jan 9, 2016
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You should come clean with him/her. Simple, if he loves you or if it is meant to be it will work itself out and he/she will forgive you. It's always the best to say what you did. If you were to stay with your partner you wouldn't want him/her to find out and months later he finds out then it to be worse and if you were to come clean, by them months you probably would be having a healthy happy relationship. Plus you would feel guilty through all those weeks and could result In a form of depression.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 9, 2016
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Depends on the situation. What was the reason of cheating? What did it mean? If you truly care about the person you cheated on, you probably don't want to break up. If this is the case, fight for them.
Profile: darkshineblanket98
darkshineblanket98 on Jan 10, 2016
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You should have broken up with them before Cheating . If you and when you love someone . You do not . Break their hearts because you chose to be selfish .. My ex Fiance recently cheated on me .. And well its his lost now .
Profile: GrowthMindset17
GrowthMindset17 on Jan 10, 2016
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Yes you should. Unless you let your partner know what you did. Put yourself in the shoes of the other side., Would you like to be lied to ?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 10, 2016
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if you cheated because you no longer love your partner , it's better to be honest and break up ... if it was a mistake just tell him/her and ask for forgiveness .. if they love you they will forgive you , altough they might take some time
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