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I can't stop thinking about my crush. What should I do?

Profile: Arakhthanda
Arakhthanda on Feb 11, 2016
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Disconnect from your crush and let your emotions settle down before coming back to face the person that you have a crush with. It is one of those moments where people are most emotional and will do decisions based on such emotions. The goal is to help myself to have an optimal emotion that allows me to make decisions about what makes me like my crush rather than act out of passion.
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Profile: briaannasaurus
briaannasaurus on Jan 24, 2016
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Try getting to know them and talking to them. When talking, try not to play up to their hobbies, it's good to have common interests but you also shouldn't lie about what you like.
Profile: EmilyStrauss
EmilyStrauss on Feb 24, 2016
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Do not treat it like it is a huge thing. Just take a deep breath and relax. Lots of couples were crushes once, so don't be afraid to reach for the person, you will find more of them, you may like them more, discover things that you do not like, your views on this person will change and so will their views on you. They'll get to know you better, what you think and envision, your experiences in life, silly little things that will draw the both of you closer for good and for bad. Taking the first step is always difficult but you have done it many times in life with lots of other things and this will be just one more. As I said the first step is difficult but you will always get a reward. Much Love, Emily
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 11, 2016
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I understand that you cannot stop thinking about your crush. How does this make you feel? Why do you think you feel this way about this person?
Profile: aicilla
aicilla on Apr 28, 2016
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Talk to them, it never hurts to spark up a conversation. If they don't respond at all and/or the way you'd like... I promise you there's many others.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 30, 2016
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You should tell them. Either way is a win-win situation because if they feel the same way, then good, but if they don't then you will know whether or not it's worth thinking about.
Profile: Markimoo
Markimoo on Apr 27, 2016
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There are a few things that you could do. You could tell them how you feel and be perfectly honest with them, or you can wait for them to approach you. I suggest the first one.
Profile: Chingu
Chingu on Jan 17, 2016
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I recommend talking to him/her. This way, she/he is not a crush anymore. You'll now be thinking about your fiancee.... :/
Profile: Shelley22
Shelley22 on Mar 9, 2016
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First of all interact with her. Then go on and tell her about your feelings. That will make things going and help you as well.
Profile: dreamCat9335
dreamCat9335 on Jul 5, 2020
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Having a crush is a beautiful yet suffocating feeling. Those butterflies in your chest keep fluttering every time you see your crush pass by, making it hard for you to concentrate even on simple things like walking in a straight line. There is no best way to distract your brain from daydreaming about them all day long. A suggestion would be to think about a song that acknowledges the reason behind those romantic feelings. Alternatively, talking to a family member about your emotions might work. Perhaps, distracting yourself by taking up a new hobby would be a good fit for you.
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