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I can't stop thinking about him or her. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 5, 2016
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I see that you once really liked him or her very much. Can you tell me a little more about him or her?
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Profile: laian11
laian11 on Feb 5, 2016
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just if you keep him unseen in your life for 3 months , and keep yourself busy ..u will forget him I guarantee
Profile: lovelyFreedom70
lovelyFreedom70 on Jan 20, 2016
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The more you try someone to get out of your mind, the more they will seem to dominate your mind. The best way is to simply accept the facts regarding him/her and yourself. Doesn't matter whether your loved is married, or a celebrity you can't reach or just someone who likes someone else, remember that love is not about stealing or being with the most beautiful/handsome person .Love is love, and since we all are going to die one day...the person whom you love will also die including their lucky partner..but what cannot and will not die will be YOUR TRUE LOVE. So either you can be sad and blame yourself for being unable to get the best guy/girl or you can live your life with the pride that you loved like a LOVE..and it the 24/7 thinking about him/her that is the biggest proof of your love for others. PS-In order to avoid being /developing obsession simply use tips from websites like WikiHow to remove your unwanted responses such as fumbling , high heart rate etc when seeing /thinking about your loved one.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 17, 2016
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I suggest finding things to keep you occupied. Pick up a new hobby or spend time doing what you already like. Hang out with friends, meet new people, pamper yourself, learn something new. Do anything that occupies your time and makes you feel good. It will give you less time to think about him or her.
Profile: lexieejolleen
lexieejolleen on Mar 19, 2016
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Tell him or her how you really feel. Opening up to someone is the greatest bond possible. Maybe they even feel the same :)
Profile: MakeMeLaugh67
MakeMeLaugh67 on Mar 31, 2016
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Is it over? Is there no way to get him/her back? If not, you have to just live through the pain, as hard as that is. You have to respect the other person if they no longer want you. No one wants to hurt, but we do. It seems like the pain will never go away, and one day it does. Get involved in something to get your mind off of that person. Help someone. Write about it. Talk about it. Life goes on. People care. Find someone to listen. Try to focus on other things and other people.
Profile: Dreamcatcher1996
Dreamcatcher1996 on Jan 29, 2016
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If this person has a negative effect on your life and well being then find something that would keep you busy and you're mind off of Him/her. If this person has a positive effect on your life and well being then go to them, life's to short to hold back on the people that you love and care about.
Profile: Yas31
Yas31 on Feb 28, 2016
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Know that you are enough within yourself and that you have something better in store for you. Feel your pain and hurt and try and stay with it. You need some time to heal and recover.
Profile: datperuviandude
datperuviandude on Apr 9, 2016
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Erase all the photos. If you feel like deleting him or her from the social medias is a must, do. Whenever is about your well-being those "it's immature to delete your ex from facebook" are non-sense. Get distracted. Do what you love to do and don't be afraid of change. Eat that ice cream you've been craving. Spend time with your love ones and never forget if he or she wasn't the one, someone much better will be
Profile: Sassy001
Sassy001 on Mar 6, 2016
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Talk to someone you trust for support and to listen to your feelings.Keep a journal of your thoughts and feelings.Give yourself some time.
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