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I can't get over my first love. What should I do?

Profile: trickynikkidee
trickynikkidee on Apr 10, 2016
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This is definitely tough, but I think if you want to get over them you have to push yourself to move on.
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Profile: Aemelliah
Aemelliah on Apr 13, 2016
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you can.stop telling yourself you cant....your words and thoughts control you,the moment you start controlling them youll feel better.trust me
Profile: loganevora
loganevora on Apr 14, 2016
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Change up your lifestyle and daily habits. Your first love became a part of your life and has also become a habit of thinking about, being with, etc.. Changing your life in healthy and positive ways is always a good answer.
Profile: Jessie10
Jessie10 on Apr 16, 2016
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What I usually do is I think of all the good things I associate with them and I try to associate them with something else that makes me even happier. I also try to come to terms with the fact that they have moved on and I am better off without them.
Profile: EmilijaS
EmilijaS on Apr 16, 2016
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This question sure depends from many reasons: how close were you with your first love - just a crush, had a relationship, had a serious relationship, were just friends, or acquaintances. Whatever the answer is, I suppose that going out with friends, avoiding the details that might remind you of your first love, some pictures - should be avoided for some time till you get better. Also you might take up a new hobby, take up some project that would keep you busy and need all your concentration so you won't have much time for thinking and overthinking about your feelings. Best of luck!!
Profile: naaenaeee
naaenaeee on Apr 20, 2016
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The only way I was able to get over my first love, was to get myself back out at the dating game. At first, I still had feeling for my first love. But then I realized there were better, more comparable people for me. I just wasn't looking.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 22, 2016
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You should accept it.Accept break ups.And also you should forgive your first love.If you can accept and if you can let your first love, everything gonna be okay.
Profile: strawberryMelon86
strawberryMelon86 on Apr 23, 2016
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Remember there are many more people in the world who will think you are amazing and that you will always find the perfect person
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 6, 2016
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First love is difficult to forgot ..but you have to move on in life...try to make a new friends ...try to meet family members after certain intervals...
Profile: ItIsWhatItIs99
ItIsWhatItIs99 on Aug 7, 2017
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Try to think positive. You two probably had a great time, these memories will last forever, but now it's over and you have to move on. Try to distract you, spend time with people who make you feel happy. It will get better!
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