I can't get over my first love. What should I do?

Don't forget about your first love! And maybe they feel the same way so you should talk to them about it

I think getting over your first love is one of the hardest things anyone ever has to do. But you have to realize that it is your first love, and there will be many more to come. For me, I got over them by realising that my first love isn't my last, and that my last is the one I should honestly care about. We are always trying to move on to bigger and better things and it should apply to the people you love as well.

I say, find a hobby. Find something that could make your mind off of him/her. Try to do arts, or music, or anything you want. It helps.

The best way is to start focusing on yourself... love yourself! write down a bucket list (start with 5 things) of things you want to do (can even include your bestie!) and start going through it. focusing on you and what you want helps you to get your mind of them and builds you up (getting ready for your next relationship).. For me i went to different exercise classes with my bestie it got me active and out of my comfort zone, i also started doing art on my own and watching netflix documentries

Remember that if its meant to be it will be and if it's not, than something better is coming your way. Allow yourself to feel sad and heartbroken but only for a short time. Instead allow yourself to be excited about the next chapter of your story.

Don't try to. It will just happen some day, maybe without you even realizing it. Suddenly you'll be reminded of him or her, and you'll just know you are over them. One thing I do, that helps, is write a letter to them, and don't send it. Keep it. It's a way of telling them how you feel, if only just for yourself. It's a great way to find out how you really feel.

Maybe you never get over some people, you just learn to live with the pain!

So keep him/her in your heart. No one asks you to stop loving him/her. But you still need to move on with life. If life treats you right and spare you another good soul to match, give him/her the rest of your life. The first love never goes away, always remains somehow in your heart because that's still a good memory. Just be happy cause that makes you to become a new version today.

Take as much time as you need to get over the person. Stop romanticizing them if you can. Do not rush yourself though. There is no fool-proof way of letting go for everyone. You have to find out what works best for you.

either reach out to them on a website or through text if you have a phone or if you think it is becoming an obsession talk to a therapist