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I can't get over my first love. What should I do?

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Anonymous on Mar 26, 2016
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First love is the imprint in our hearts that will always be remembered. In time you will move on and you will love again, you will never forget but it will be easier.
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Anonymous on Feb 26, 2016
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First loves are often hard to get over because they are your first everything. They teach you what love really is, make you happy, and you feel like you're living a real fairy tale. The thing is, if you found that in a person before then you can find it again in someone else. It will just take time. And you have to be willing to put in the time to get over someone and find someone new.
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friendlySummer21 on Jan 22, 2016
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first loves are always hard to get over because you will always have a soft spot for them , but dont worry this is completely natural, everyone feels this way, just carry on with life and you'll soon find yourself not thinking about them, i hope this helps.
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rebeccafosterxx on Feb 10, 2016
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You cant get over your first love? Give it time. Times the healer of a broken heart. Do other things to keep your mind off it.
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Anonymous on Jan 13, 2016
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I'm also still in the same boat in a way. I did finally move on after almost a year but it crosses my mind here and there. It took time for me to let go of the issue and then I took time to make sure I got myself back to normal. Eventually someone has came into my life and reminds me of him so much but its different as well. although I may not know how you are feeling totally but I know the experience and its not fun. youll be okay though...it just takes time!
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Anonymous on Jan 24, 2016
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Love again.. either fall in love or make someone fall in love.. Either ways the victory is yours...
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Anonymous on Feb 14, 2016
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Understand that these things take time. You're not going to get over your first love overnight, so there's an element of this that's simply out of your control. However, you can also do some self-reflection; why did the relationship not work out? There must've been some reason, given that it ended. Remind yourself of that. Perhaps he/she just wasn't right for you. Perhaps you weren't right for them. Perhaps the timing wasn't right, or other circumstances were at play. Take these sorts of things under consideration when reflecting upon what happened. Through reflection comes understanding, and through understanding: peace.
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Anonymous on Feb 5, 2016
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first love never forget because it was the first and it is not bad, should now allow to be loved by someone else, let it happen
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Anonymous on Mar 17, 2016
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Cut all contacts with your first love. Find a new activity, hang out with friends, and or travel to new places.
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Anonymous on Nov 13, 2017
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It is not important to get your first love. The most important thing is to get your true love,you will meet your love someday.
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