I can't get over my ex girlfriend or boyfriend after a year. What should I do?
thesecretkeeper1115
on
May 1, 2016
...read more
Getting over with someone doesn't have schedules. For some, it takes years, months, or days. If it has been a year, ask yourself: "Why am I not over her/him?" Is it because I was hurt? Is it because I was happy with our relationship?I recommend you list the good and bad experiences you had with that person. Maybe by looking at the list, you can find your answer.
SweetStrawberry1021
on
Sep 27, 2016
...read more
Sometimes it is hard to "get over" an ex , even after a number of years. Sometimes we have our first love and it may never leave us. In the end, we learn to live with that, and it is okay to leave a little piece of your heart with someone. Loving feelings about an ex can continue for any number of reasons. Often enough, folks take this as an indication to attempt reunion. Sometimes this is absolutely right. But frequently the lover realizes his recollected feelings and memories—the internal image of the ex—are distinctly different from the feelings engendered in his or her actual presence.
Learning to distinguish between the internal image of an ex and the actual person can lead to appreciation of our own feelings. While we may feel consistently injured and angry when in the presence of an ex, in our internal world we may be able to access love and compassion for that same person.
Jlz
on
Apr 28, 2016
...read more
Be patient- time heals old wounds eventually. Take some time to focus on you and do something you enjoy. Confide in your closest friends and family- isolation won't help you any faster.
Crimsonweepingwillow
on
Jul 1, 2016
...read more
I believe that there is honestly no time constrain on how long it should take you to get over a significant other. It would be hard for other people to answer that for you considering that they didn't experience the relationship as you have. Personally I dated my best friend for a bit and although it's been almost two years I am still not completely over what happened. Following your heart is the best thing you can do, you can take however long you need to heal from your relationship.
TheListener1101
on
Feb 14, 2016
...read more
Well I guess some people do have it tough, getting over their past relationships. I have struggled with it for the past 2 years, I could not get myself to like another person, it felt like I was cheating myself so I just occupied myself with things that I loved doing( i like studying, so I started studying vigorously). This is the beauty of life, you have got so many things to do, so much to learn, so many people to meet, all you have to do it is to reach out to them. You can try occupying yourself with something you like. Making new relationships/friendships can be tricky, people who can do that get over this period rather easily. You need to keep telling yourself that you are doing good in life, and that the transition will take place, don't try too hard. Life is short, so instead of sulking over a person that has moved out of life, better to liven it up. Because before you know it, time will pass and you will regret later that you could have used the time, you wasted thinking about a person who doesn't matter to you anymore
Anonymous
on
Mar 20, 2018
...read more
It's difficult to make decisions like that, now that you have made such a decision take another step and live a new life that you are happy in . Future is yours
LoveIsOurWeapon
on
Jan 27, 2016
...read more
Maybe try seeing different people, it will be hard but it will be worth it unless you really want them back, then try talking to them.
Anonymous
on
Jul 12, 2016
...read more
Surround yourself with a strong support system. Live your life and enjoy the moments that come from it. You'll realize that you are thinking about this person less and less.
Anonymous
on
Feb 10, 2016
...read more
Maybe you will never get over them, but don't stay hung up and obsessing. Move on. Sleep with someone new, get caught up in a job, do something you really like.
Anonymous
on
Jan 15, 2016
...read more
Involve yourself on works and help people as much as you can . Actually try to keep yourself busy with activites
I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
416 Answers
How long does it take to get over someone?
393 Answers
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
370 Answers
My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?
347 Answers
What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
322 Answers
Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?
317 Answers
