I can't get over my ex boyfriend. What should I do?

Just focus on school or your job. Try to think of the good moments he or she had with you and its there loss that they lost you, its not your fault

you need to join in social activity and meet new people there. maybe one of have have the same interest as you.

Take some time to focus on yourself, your happiness and your future instead of dwelling on the past! Break-ups can be hard to get through, I know, but if you surround yourself with friends and good environments it'll be a bit easier for you.

I suggest that you block him off all social media. This is always helpful. Also, cutting communication is key to moving on.

Try to figure out things why you can't get over with your ex boyfriend. Are you just making yourself getting back things that can't be bring back or you are just stuck in memories? Maybe it's hard to let go a person who have been part of your life. But life goes on. It's a matter of acceptance and letting go. It;s your choice if you want to remain stuck or to start moving on then re-start your life. Remember always that you are the one choosing for your own happiness.

In most cases, friends and family are a great help to spend time and forget all the sadness. Talk it out/cry it out, anything will help.

Try to find something that clicks with you, like a hobby. The more you do the hobby the more you'll stop worrying about that person. Sorta distant your self from that person.

It will hurt but will help you the most is to distract yourself. Hang out with friends, let them show you that life is more than boys. Don't TRY to make him jealous, MAKE him jealous by seeing what he no longer has. (:

The best advice for getting over someone is focusing on yourself, it may not sound helpful but in my experience when you put your head into bettering all the other aspects in your life such as work or even a hobby, you forget about the pain and start feeling better and better about yourself.

First I am sorry for the pain anyone is feeling over loosing their ex boyfriend, loosing anyone is tough. Second the misnomer of "get over" anything is possible. It's not. You can however slowly move forward, it won't happen overnight. The key is finding the real reason you can'r move forward, to do that I hope you have friends to count on. If you are reading then find someone here on 7cups you can lean on. Just talk to them about nonsense if you want. Play happy uplifting music, help someone in need. There are so many things good things you can occupy your mind wth. In the end you never want to "get over" that person. Everything has a purpose. Rejoice in the time you had, they will always be apart of you.