I can't get over my ex after a year. What should I do?
Anonymous
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Feb 20, 2016
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Consider talking to a counselor, or therapist, a lot of them are trained in these situations. Many schools offer this.
Anonymous
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Feb 20, 2016
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Getting over your ex can take time depending upon the duration of your relationship, your involvemement, your emotional quotient, your way of dealing with it, just to mention few. So where few can get over their ex just in matter of days, other can take months, years and even a lifetime. You have to evaluate your case and then your willingness to get over it. Don't push yourself to feel certain way. Let yourself feel honestly whatever you are going through.. feeling of loss, grief, anger, hurt, sadness.. whatever it is for you. Mourn if that makes you feel better. Healing takes place only when you acknowledge your wound. Overlooking it will only make it worse. Take your time and you will move on if not sooner than later. But forcing yourself to move on will not resolve anything, other than settling down the pain even deeper.
Anonymous
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Feb 21, 2016
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Try meeting new people. Or maybe try to make it work with your ex boyfriend/girlfriend. And maybe try to get on meeting apps.
Anonymous
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Feb 24, 2016
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I've been in the exact same position, they're your ex for a reason. And you need to think about yourself and do what's best for you. You will be happy
Anonymous
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Feb 24, 2016
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That's rough. I recommend talking to other people and opening up to other people. You may just find someone else that will treat you better than your ex.
thaedeus93
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Feb 24, 2016
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you need to help yourself,and need to move on.find someone else who will love you more than your ex.
EmilyStrauss
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Feb 24, 2016
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You should think about what are the things you really miss. Persons do not come as a hole, persons are made of experiences, so just think about what is it that you miss: having someone to hug? talking to someone whenever you need to? having someone to go out and have fun with? When you identify the list of things that you are missing from this person you will start acknowledging what are the things you miss and you need to get again in your life. The person you may not get it again, but the "purpose" this person served for you and your emotions can be identified and filled with friends, family and so on. Once we get to understand what we miss and what we need we can start getting it. Good luck in your path. Much Love, Emily
Anonymous
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Feb 25, 2016
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If your ex hasn't got a new relationship, you could perhaps talk to them. If you don't want to do that, try and meet other people. Perhaps you'll find an interest in them, and that'll make you forget your ex, most likely!
Anonymous
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Feb 27, 2016
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When I split up with my ex it took me a long time to get over them, but it does get easier with time. Try and keep busy and focus on the good in your life and pursue your interests and hobbies.
Anonymous
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Feb 28, 2016
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The best thing to do is to go out and have fun. When being in a relationship with someone, it's the best feeling ever. However, after being hurt all the time and getting your heart broken, you feel like you just want to leave but you can't because you 'love' that person too much to let go. That isn't the case, when you feel like that, it will be tough but you just got to let go. It's like a bad habit, it won't just go like that but once it goes then you'll realise how bad it was and you'll be so happy.
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