I can't get over my divorce. What should I do?

Take your time. Don't try and rush your feelings. You did love that person for however long and now they're gone. You can't expect to go back to normal right away.

Focus on yourself, not the situation. Spend time doing all the self care you need right now, and build your reserves back up.

Consider therapy, and delving into what is making you hold on to the relationship. If closure is needed I would suggest seeking that out.

do new fun things, set goals In life and learn to love yourself. you can also do a sport or read a book a day things like that. divorces are hard just live life slow soke up the pain ad understand why you can't then fix that.

As a listener it sounds like you have some emotions still there and that previous marriage. And you were in love that’s why you did it that’s why you said I do so there still gonna be a place in your heart for them so you’re never really thinking about how what I MoveOn or you never really thought that you have to take that next step after divorce you thought I’m gonna be with them for the rest my life because that was the case when you said I do and when you had to take that next step you were scared or whatever was going to your mind so as long as you show them that you have made yourself a better person and you open up to the fact that maybe you can fall in love again and you show them that you were doing better no matter if they hurt you that it’s OK I forgive you but I’m not gonna let you back in my life to hurt me again but I’m going to remain happy no matter what happened show them you can’t stay sad, Angry, depressed or even deprived of love that you find your happiness again you’re never stop

Just give it time. This is a huge adjustment time for you. Give it time and you will find your way for sure.

You could talk to a Counsloer or try dating again. It will probably take some time for it to work but it will be worth it in the long run

Get out more. Take your mind off your ex partner. Think about why you divorced in the first place. Try your best to move on.

Do more activities that distract you to that. Like paint, sing, anything like that. It's important to know why you get divorced. Things happens for anything.

For the best measure against your feelings over your divorce is to pick up a new calling in life. Volunteer your time for the Red Cross or some disaster relief organization. Helping people in need and hearing them thank you will feel very good. Help with events your community holds. It's worth spending your time helping others. For a more individual level of comfort pick up a new hobby. If you're great at cooking then try to make complex foods. Go explore mother nature's greatest view. Nature can offer sites that will ease your feelings and your spirit. The best thing to do is get your feet going and try new things. Don't sit around and be miserable life is to short for that.