I can't get over my divorce. What should I do?

there are some wonderful divorce groups available in person and online to those who struggle with divorce. divorce is not easy and with the right support system in place you will heal

Have you considered undergoing professional counseling or therapy? Stay close to those who love and support you during this difficult time. Spend your free time with friends and family who make you laugh; people you have fun with. This way, you will distract your mind from any sadness, while feeling loved by your friends/family.

Your feelings are valid. It is normal to become stuck on someone who you were attached to so greatly. But you need to give yourself time. Give yourself an ample amount of time for reflection. Think about the relationship and why it ended. Remember that it ended for a reason and that a better future lies past this tough time. Learning from the experience is the best thing you can try to do if your mind is still focused on it. Try meditation and other ways to clear your mind and give you clarity.

7 cups is awesome for that. Lots of people here specialize in that area, and you can custom search people who can help you and talk you through it. You can also pick a therapist if you are up to it!

After a divorce, it's important to take time to heal, feel safe from drama and anger, and rediscover

Think of why the marriage did not work, accept that it was probably for the best, and that there is something out there better. However, don’t jump to another relationship, firstly, look after yourself and don’t rush things. Let things flow naturally.

Think about the beauty of marriage and not the beauty in the person. Learn to manage things, not everything can be positive around. So gear up, being single again is going to be an adventurous ride.

Living in the past is hard and during a divorce, we grieve as we would a death. There could be many complications moving forward such as children and unwinding the life that was created together. Its not easy, but start planning for your future and have something to look forward to each week. You can also limit the time you talk and see your ex so you do not compare your lives and how each has moved forward. Give it time and be patient with yourself. Talk it out and allow yourself to heal.

When I went through my divorce, I found that being social as often as possible helped me a great deal.

It's gonna be hard, obviously. And nothing's going to change overnight. But if there's someone who can help you out of this, it's you. Sure, if you need an outlet, talk to friends, talk to the listeners here, rant all you want. But at the end of the day, you'll have to be strong and help yourself out of this. Get a new hobby, or if you already have something, put your soul into it. This is your time to work on your self-development. To perfect the areas which you lack right now. Would help to divert your mind, as well as, you might end up being really good at your hobby, and might someday be earning through it. This is an experience. Learn. All the best!