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I broke up with him even though I do love him and he loves me. I had to! How can I move on from someone I can't find a reason to hate?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 30, 2018
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You can’t time will let you heal don’t think about him too much as it might make it harder for you to move on
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 1, 2018
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Remind yourself of the reasons you left. It doesn’t matter if you hate someone. Maybe things weren’t right circumstantially. It’s your decision.
Profile: Briyonalove
Briyonalove on Apr 7, 2018
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Its real hard but you sometimes got to do what you have to, I really hope you guys work things out it would be great if you did.
Profile: lovelypumpkin
lovelypumpkin on Apr 11, 2018
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It is very hard to move on. For me, it helps to talk to someone about what i am feeling and spend more time with my friends. Friends are truly the best medicine.
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Anonymous on Apr 12, 2018
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If you had to broke up with him, maybe he isn't the one, you know? :) So.. move on and be positive. You'll find your true love if you get through the passenger loves.
Profile: AprylFools
AprylFools on Apr 26, 2018
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This is hard, but the best thing to do here is to remember the reasons why you broke up. Maybe you just weren't compatible and despite this, it's better for you both. Surround yourself with supportive people.
Profile: Thelovelyonee
Thelovelyonee on May 19, 2018
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I know what you are feeling right now. Leaving someone that you love is very difficult and sometimes harmful but you had your reasons and that is great. It is great to end something that you know it is not going to work out the way you would like to. I am really proud of your decision. I am sure that you are going to find someone that loves you more than your ex boyfriend does.
Profile: beautifulMelody28
beautifulMelody28 on Jun 1, 2018
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Moving on from someone doesn't necessarily mean you hate them. You can care about someone but come to accept that the two of you are not compatible and don't work together. I think once you love someone it's very rare to just not love them anymore, or unlove them, unless they've done something really grave. If you hate someone, you have not moved on from them, you are still stuck having passionate feelings towards them; the line between love and hate is very fine. So I think you've got to come to terms with the things that drove you apart, be it the difference of values, ways of living, compatibility or anything else. Sit with yourself and accept that you care about this person but you want the best for them and for yourself, and this best cannot be achieved while the two of you are still together. Accept your pain and your love and make peace with yourself and your decision.
Profile: Livelovedream18
Livelovedream18 on Jun 2, 2018
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You have to let yourself decide if you can find someone else but if you can't or want a bit of a break then you can always talk to me about it.
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ingeniousShoulder48 on Jun 6, 2018
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It is hard to let go of someone when you are both in love. I believe that time is the best solution here. Just take it one day at a time. It will get easier with time. Keep yourself busy. Focus on the other important things in your life. Hope I was of some help.
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