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I broke up with him even though I do love him and he loves me. I had to! How can I move on from someone I can't find a reason to hate?

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Anonymous on May 5, 2017
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Take some time alone everyday and think about how he truly has made you feel. If he's harmed you in any way please seek help, contact the police if needed.
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Anonymous on May 12, 2017
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There has to be a reason you decided to break up with him. Even if you love him, the reason you did it should motivate you to find someone without that same problem or issue. And eventually, if you really want to, You can move on.
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EdgarAllan on May 21, 2017
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There was obviously a reason why you broke up with him. It's easy to get a skewed vision of the past when there are things from the past that you miss. Case in point, your continued love for your boyfriend. You simply must ask yourself "Why did I break up with him?" If it is a valid reason, then follow your primary instinct and stay away from him. If it is an invalid reason, you may consider rekindling the relationship.
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FeriWitch on Jun 4, 2017
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Staying with someone isn't about always sharing love - it's about building a relationship that helps you both become the person you want to be. You don't need to hate someone to realize that being with them isn't good for you, or isn't letting you grow in ways that are right for you.
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Anonymous on Jun 16, 2017
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Life is full of ups and downs. You will have lots of opportunities. Have confidence. Concentrate on your passions
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Anonymous on Jun 16, 2017
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It it possible that you can move on with your life without having to associate anger and resentment.?It may bring you more peace and understanding.
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Anonymous on Jun 24, 2017
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It is really tough to break-up with the person you are still in love with. But it is really important for you to understand why you had to breakup in the first place. Acceptance is the key to let go and move on. There are lot of wonderful experiences to look forward to in life. Treat this as a joyous memory instead of a sad one. Much love.
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Lauralou144 on Jul 7, 2017
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Sometimes good things come to an end. Don't blame yourself, try and look past any negative, be happy about the relationship you had and learn from it for the next one that you encounter.
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Anonymous on Jul 9, 2017
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If you really love someone, why end it? Maybe you should try things out with him again, see if it works.
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Anonymous on Jul 22, 2017
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Recognize the reasons you thought it was best to split up, and see that it was for the best. Relationships don't always work, even if their are feelings. Recognize how each of you grew throughout the relationship, and how you learned from eachother.
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