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I broke up with him even though I do love him and he loves me. I had to! How can I move on from someone I can't find a reason to hate?

Profile: CharlieMorningstar
CharlieMorningstar on Sep 10, 2016
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You had your reasons for breaking up even though you love each other. Remember those reasons! Try to be proud and happy for both yourself and him in the future! Take baby steps toward building your future without him. Remember, everyone takes things at their own pace, and breakups are no exception.
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Profile: patientJoy11
patientJoy11 on Sep 11, 2016
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Get rid of anything that reminds you of him. Declutter your space. It may be hard to throw away things from a person you've loved so deeply, but it will be the best decision.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 28, 2016
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It just takes time. Unfortunately, its hard and it can take a long time but the feelings will become more manageable. The feelings may never go away but they will be less intense. You'll meet new people, connect with them and feel that love again.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 5, 2016
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Sometimes people just are not meant to be together romantically and a friendship would work better. Friendships can be just as valuable! The whole point of relationships is to find people who relate to us, whether that be as new friends or as a romantic partner.
Profile: MarchSand
MarchSand on Oct 8, 2016
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well, is going to be painful and hard at the beginning, You can distract yourself by doing different activities like working out or taking walks.
Profile: KindBean2002
KindBean2002 on Oct 20, 2016
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I think time can heal you. It's hard since you love him, but I think you should try to talk to friends, family and have supporters, so they can make you feel better
Profile: chrisxxx
chrisxxx on Oct 22, 2016
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I know this is a challenge, I understand the feeling but the hate never is rasonable. Why you broke up with him? apparently you both love each other but the circunstances stop you be able to keep a relationship with him. I need to know more but first attempt to find the reasonable feeling.
Profile: Cocomojo
Cocomojo on Oct 23, 2016
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Give yourself the space and time to accept what has happened. Rejoice that you have known love. Recognise that not everything needs to end with hate. End it with love instead.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 4, 2016
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Sometimes you have to break up with someone. Things could just pop up sometimes. Maybe consider just remaining off the ''dating grid'' for a while, to re-group your thoughts.
Profile: bxylxx
bxylxx on Nov 18, 2016
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You don't have to hate him, if you had to do it for a reason always keep that in mind. You could possibly learn to be on friendly terms with him too.
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