How to stop hating yourself after cheating?
Anonymous
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Apr 13, 2018
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Give yourself a break. People make mistakes all the time, and this is only one of the many mistakes one can make.
Learn to forgive yourself and most importantly learn from the experiences you have in life: life is a journey and we learn how to live with trial and error.
SebaGhanem
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Apr 19, 2018
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We all make mistakes. We are humans not angels, remember that. If the person you cheated on knows try to make it up to them. And give yourself some time to sort your priorities and wants/needs in general. Give yourself time to heal. You'll be okay.
Anonymous
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May 12, 2018
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If you haven't talked to your partner yet, you should try to. It will help you to feel less guilty or the feeling of hating yourself. Try talking to someone close as well to get things off your chest and have someone to support you
meiixae
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May 20, 2018
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Sometimes, it can be hard to leave a relationship, even if you have already moved on. As long as you know that cheating is bad and that you have learned from it, I'd say that there is no reason to hate yourself for it.
Livelovedream18
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Jun 2, 2018
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Hate is a strong word. Find the real you inside of the covers. Remove the covers and let the real you shine because your beautiful. I am always willing to help you if you want to talk about it.
SirMerek975
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Jun 14, 2018
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Come to terms with why and how you’ve done this, once you’ve found the reasons focus on the postitive and how you’re going to change it and stop yourself from doig it again and how you will work with your S/O (if they are still with you)
Smilelikethis15
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Jun 15, 2018
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Sincerely apologies and forgive yourself and understand the pain and consequence of that actions and never repeat it again.
Anonymous
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Jun 28, 2018
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I don't cheat so it is not possible to have any thoughts about hating myself in that aspect. In the event I do, it must be the current one is time to be freed and I needed a new one.
Anonymous
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Jul 15, 2018
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Everyone makes mistakes. I believe that everything happens for a reason and maybe this happened to make you become a better person than you already were
switsx
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Jul 28, 2018
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To stop hating yourself or feeling down about cheating you must understand your motives for cheating and consult with your significant other to express where you feel you have turned away from them and felt the need to cheat.
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