How to stop hating yourself after cheating?
Anonymous
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Oct 15, 2017
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First is have a time for yourself, cry until you can't cry anymore to clear all the negative thoughts in your mind, finding out what you really want to do in your life, knowing the things that you deserve, second is spending time with your family, and lastly remind yourself that cheating is a choice thst the people made its not your fault if your partner cheat because its a choice that the people made
Anonymous
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Nov 10, 2017
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Learn from your mistakes. Learn to not do it again. It's something you've done in the past. It'll be okay just don't do it again.
soulcompany
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Nov 12, 2017
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The bible says, "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" this may seem comforting for a bit but we do need to seek to be good beings and better persons. We need to grow stronger by forgiving ourselves for the wrongs acts we do even if it be cheating. It's only then that when we forgive ourselves first can we grow and allow God's grace to flow in our lives and better ourselves.
Anonymous
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Dec 12, 2017
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Realizing we are human so we are all make mistakes. I wouldn't really even call it a mistake, I would call it a lesson! People change and these things make us a better person at the end of the day. You are growing more and more everyday as a individual and that's okay!
Melissame
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Feb 7, 2018
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It's important to work on acceptance. Accepting that what has happened can't change and knowing that we all make mistakes in life, no matter how terrible. It can take time but focusing on your good qualities, be kind to people and you'll realise your good side and forget the mistakes.
Anonymous
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Feb 8, 2018
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well you just gotta learn the hard lesson and never repeat it again , and whenever you think about cheating again go back and remember the results
endlesslyliam
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Feb 16, 2018
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You can’t control whether you hurt someone or not. You have to accept that you did hurt them, and that’s okay. Think about why you did it, what was happening in the current relationship you were in. We’re you confused? Did you feel like your relationship wasn’t adequate or it didnt suit your needs? Accept what you are feeling and know that communication is key to most relationships.
Vendavale1
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Feb 22, 2018
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Guilt sometimes makes us have depression symptoms. Talk to your partner about it and look for couple therapy.
beautifulDreamer33
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Mar 1, 2018
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Well, by giving yourself a time to be free to feel gulty, some particular time, and they simply stop by blaming yorself.Always have on mind that you are just human, with imperfections, and try to look at situation as experience, and lesson.
affablelassisme
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Mar 7, 2018
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Get to the root of the problem. Think about what made you cheat. In most of the cases, it is not the fault of the person who cheated and end up removing toxic relationships from their life and get over the guilt of cheating their partners or anybody in life. We are human beings and mistakes are human.
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