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How to handle a breakup with class?

Profile: Kaylamac1414
Kaylamac1414 on Jun 30, 2015
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Take some time away from the person. Jumping into talking right after the break up or trying to be friends is only going to make things harder, I've learned that the hard way. Take some time to reflect on the relationship and why it ended and look at the positive side of it. Don't talk to the other person until you can find the positive side of the breakup. I'm all for staying friends afterwards, but you've gotta give yourself time and make sure it's really what you want.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 13, 2015
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From my experience, if you don't want to look back on your break up and say "Oh that was horribly shameful" then the rule is: don't beg. Look them straight in the eye, tell them you are sorry they feel that way and that you were happy to have met them, and walk away. Just walk away. It's going to be okay.
Profile: LifeRelief
LifeRelief on Jan 19, 2016
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Don't beg, and act as simply you're already over it. Even if you're on the verge of tears because of it, it ended for a reason, and that reason is still out there waiting to be found by you.
Profile: VaughanBeauty22
VaughanBeauty22 on Jan 13, 2015
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One of the best ways to handle a break up with class is to accept the breakup. Let them know that you understand that it is over and that you are trying to move on.
Profile: lovelyLynx18
lovelyLynx18 on Jun 21, 2015
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Well maybe just tell them that you hope they find happiness and wish them the best in all that they do. And when you are alone, it is ok to cry.
Profile: CJZilla9
CJZilla9 on Apr 28, 2015
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Two words: breathing room. If someone breaks up with you, give them time, give yourself time to fly.
Profile: TheProverbialSwan
TheProverbialSwan on Oct 31, 2015
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Even if the relationship is totally over, I think the best thing you can do is to remind the other person why fell in love with you in the first place. It wasn't because you cried and begged and acted out of desperation, it was because you were fun and exciting and looked after yourself. If people remembered that in the aftermath of a break up - even if it hurts like hell and is the last thing you feel like doing - then you open up the possibility of making the other person realise what they are giving up and increase your chances of not having to live with the shame of doing something stupid. My suggestion would always be to remind someone why they loved you not why they left you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 17, 2015
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never give up, keep believing in your self and never forget that every one has bad and good relationships but things always workout in the end .
Profile: GodlyMan2016
GodlyMan2016 on Jun 13, 2016
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Don't be disrespectful to the other party. Accept that it's over and try to learn from it so you can be better
Profile: piag860517
piag860517 on Jul 1, 2016
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accept the break up; dissapear for a while, never beg, and after a couple of months you can contact that person; never give the power to anybody to hurt you more than once; is not easy; when someone left us...we cant handle it..but you are going to hate yourself if you dont act classy.
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