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How to get over someone you never dated?

Profile: nikkigiveslove
nikkigiveslove on Apr 29, 2018
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Deleting pictures, blocking them on social media for a while definitely helped me! I started focusing things back on myself until I was ready.
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Profile: FlowerPower5
FlowerPower5 on Apr 12, 2020
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You focus on yourself and keep yourself busy by planning your goals and how you want to achieve them. It’s okay to cry, but it’s important to come back to your plan. It’s also very important to get enough exercise, especially when you feel the most sad, because it will make you tired and also help you feel better. It’s also a good idea to find a healthy outlet, like writing, painting, music, or simply talking with someone who will listen. Although it is tempting to change who you are or turn to things that are not good for you, it’s important to love yourself enough to not allow yourself to do it. This brings me to my last and most important point. You need to speak positivity to yourself as much as you can and tell yourself nice things. Love yourself.
Profile: lifegivesulemons
lifegivesulemons on Apr 17, 2020
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Oh girl did this hit home for me. I completely get you, a guy maybe even leading you on or just some intense crushing. Here are things that worked out for me when I needed to get over a guy that barely knew I existed. 1) snap more friends. the more you talk about things with them, the more you'll forget about this. 2) i'm not saying REBOUND, but maybe find some other guys to talk to, but don't play them, that's just rude. 3) honestly if he's bugging you, block or ignore all forms of social media and contact. that way you won't remember about it as much or be reminded of it. 4) most important: do the things you love. this will help you think about what ur doing that u love rather than some stanky ass boy or girl that didn't give u attention and love even tho u deserve it.
Profile: StargirlTina
StargirlTina on Dec 12, 2020
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It can be tough to get over I crush..I have experienced it too.. The best way to get over a person in this situation is to just realise why you arent together..Find out the pros of that and trust that whatever happens, happens for the best..Something better is surely waiting for you! I realised that it made so much sense when I didnt end up with guys I had a crush on, because I soon found a guy who is so perfect for me that it's feels tailoured to fit me like two perfect pieces of a jigsaw puzzle..I am now dating him! So, all in good time my dear!Just have faith..Lots of love and strength to you🧡
Profile: generouswings
generouswings on Feb 3, 2021
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I think it’s the hardest thing to get out of a one-sided love or relationship. I guess I’m eligible enough to talk about it since I’ve loved someone since four years, and I’m dealing with the same too. It becomes even harder when you’re friends with this person, since you can’t live without talking to that person, so ghosting isn’t a favourable option. Such relationships are more on our heads than in reality. We have certain things in our mind, and usually we consider this person to be perfect. We’re so blindly in love that nothing about that significant someone seems to be imperfect. You have this imagine of that person on your mind, which may or may not be true. But in this case, there’s an advantage. Since you’ve never dated this person, I’m guessing that you aren’t very close to that person, or do not have a lot of memories with him/ her. It’s untrue that one-sided love can’t be passionate. I’d say that it’s the purest and most passionate of all, since we don’t expect a lot in return. All we want is our feelings to be validated, and maybe reciprocated back a bit. Being into a relationship without sharing love mutually can be quite emotionally draining, so I guess you’re lucky that way. I guess you can divert your mind by focusing on your hobbies and the things you love. It’ll help you to change your primary focus into something good and productive. I feel like you should give that person his/ her own space, maintain a bit of distance possible for him (if you wish to) and not lose hope. There are more than seven billion people on this planet, and I’m pretty sure that you’ll find your tailor-made partner very soon who’ll love you from his heart and soul, for who you are treat you well. You deserve all the love in this world. Let’s be optimistic! Cheers🥂 Take care❤️
Profile: Nithou
Nithou on Dec 29, 2015
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It is not because you weren't defined as a relationship that it doesn't hurt. Every relation that ends is hard to get over, and you'll need time to get over. Invest in yourself, take your time and give yourself some space to feel better again.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on May 3, 2016
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Just remember the reason of why u want to get over that someone in the 1st place. Trust your judgments in all your decisions and follow them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 30, 2016
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I feel upset that the person I love most is not loving me back and not giving importance to our relationship. I will ask him the reason of this behavior and then I will jump to any conclusion.
Profile: GeekRabbit
GeekRabbit on Aug 23, 2016
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Social media is a terrible reminder of things you wan't to get over. You don't need to bloke someone, but taking a few days offline, just for yourself, can do wonders.
Profile: GaurdianAngel1989
GaurdianAngel1989 on Sep 13, 2016
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First I would cut off all ties with the person, delete his number, and any other contact detail. Then spend some time out with friends doing things I love. Avoid running into him as much as I can, meet new people.
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