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How to get over someone you have to see everyday?

Profile: chlomb
chlomb on May 4, 2018
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try to avoid seeing them completely . if its in school take different ways , if you have the same class avoid them completely
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Anonymous on May 13, 2018
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This is a tricky one but it happens. Sometimes completely blocking them from your brain helps. Try to think of other things. Maybe stay away from them for a little bit until you know how you feel
Profile: RedVase1234
RedVase1234 on May 31, 2018
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Think past the problematic parts of your relationship, and focus on reducing the power this individual has in your daily life.
Profile: potatobreadpoint
potatobreadpoint on Jun 28, 2018
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It is important to acknowledge the fact that this relationship was important for your personal development. You don't need to rush, take your time.
Profile: generousPrince61
generousPrince61 on Jul 7, 2018
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This is a very difficult situation. But have a conversation with that person to establish boundaries. For example, if it's too difficult to communicate directly, you could use a "communication book" to communicate, and that can help avoid draining arguments.
Profile: Allears247
Allears247 on Jul 25, 2018
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Unfortunately, its a waiting game. Waiting for your feelings for that person to diminish to a point where you can cope.
Profile: TripleL7
TripleL7 on Sep 16, 2018
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Just be strong. Be neutral. It's hard if you really live them. but you have to live your life still. There's no really getting iver someone theres more of just letting the old memories fade and learning to live without out them. No matter what you have to think that you're watching them mive on and live their life but they're also watching you move on and live yours. So take care of yourself do thinks for you. Love yourself. and stay happy. Don't do things to show out or think that you're making them jealous. Don't put on a show ... Move on and live your life for yourself.
Profile: GEMINIALDRIDGE8D
GEMINIALDRIDGE8D on Oct 13, 2018
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DISTRACT YOURSELF! I cannot stress this enough. You must surround yourself by positive people, friends and family. Distract yourself. Go out. Have some fun with others. And although it may be difficult sometimes you have to find reasons why you deserve better than them. Even if the relationship ended due to a fault of your own, you must create reasons in your head as to why you deserve better and how you can be happier on your own or with another than with your ex. Because it will happen. You will get over it. It will take time, but eventually you will be happy again and you will be over it. At the same time however, you must still face the reality that you will have to face them and until you are over them it will probably hurt.
Profile: LumosPatronum
LumosPatronum on Nov 6, 2019
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It's hard! But I think the best way to go about it is to remember why you are no longer together. It's not fun to keep reliving the reasons you're not apart but it's important to keep that reality check going so that if you start to slip you can easily recall why being with them is not a good idea. If it's possible avoid being alone with the person as that can tempt old emotions to come back up and can make things really awkward. Outside of that, now is the time to focus on you, what improvements do you want to make in your life? Where do you want to be in a years time? Focus on those things and try to let the past stay in the past as much as you can.
Profile: BrightAfterglow
BrightAfterglow on Nov 14, 2019
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Focus on self-care! Start a new hobby or activity, get involved. This focus shift will harness your energy into a positive result for yourself. It is easy to lose sight of what is truly important and we are so very important. Consciously immerse yourself in your well being so deeply with self-love that the past has no room in your present. The past is behind you and if someone asks or tries to ruffle feathers, respectfully tell them that you do not live there anymore. Your mind is a powerful strong resilient tool, don't underestimate your power!
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