How to get over someone you have to see everyday?

When you think of them try not to associate bad thoughts to them, yes they probably are evil/horrible/unbearable. But the only way to 'get over' someone is to essentially forget about them, this will not happen instantly. But more as a slow but steady washing out. You will start to not feel anger/hate/sadness, just the memories of these feelings. Say strong. If I can do it, you can too

Keep busy with new activities, always helps! Keeping preoccupied will give you space and time. Be Well!

Unfortunately I had to do that, twice in my life, wasn't a good time, I can assure you. I realized what I was doing when it happens that I had to meet this someone again in life after our mutual time together as study colleagues. I realized I'm acting like if I'm on a diet, and I cannot come near a burger, but it's just in my reach now, It need exercising , like a muscle, but found out that with simple notion to myself not to indulge myself into thinking of how much I love this person or how was our lives going to be if we're together, etc... I just DON"T do that, I instead focus on the now and act like a stranger and really put myself into a stranger shoes... I hope it works for you as it worked for me.

Getting over someone you see everyday can be hard. I guess you try your best to avoid them.. and it's all in the state of mind reminding yourself you deserve better and nothing less... and once you realise that you wouldn't see them in the same way as before.

As hard it is, and boy have we all been there, distance yourself. First, from talking (doesn't matter if you are close, the person should understand - this means you have to tell the person your feelings). Then, slowly but surely, it'll go away. The memories? Maybe never but the pain, yes.

I am in the exact situation and I believe seeing them everyday actually helps with the healing process. Although it may sound crazy trust me. You need to familiarise yourself with seeing them everyday so that you can heal healthily. This is much more healthy than not seeing someone in a few months and then bumping into them again as past feelings will return as you don't know how to respond to them being there as you have leaned to live without them there. It also has to be said that you should focus on yourself instead of who you are getting over" It is inevitable that there is going to be pain and hurt involved but you need to find a healthy way of coping with that for you. Befire you know it you will be able to walk straight past them and perhaps even smile at them. By seeing them everyday you are forced to acknowledge and accept your feelings, It may not sound like it but getting over them will happen eventually - you need to learn to recover first and then everything else will fall into place

It is really difficult at first because you always see them, even if its a slight glance or hear them. Its still difficult. What made it worse for me was that we ran in the same circle of friends which really sucked. It's just time really. Over time you will become immune to seeing them, even though there's still a slight flutter in your stomach once you do. It will take a lot of time, but eventually it won't even bother you.

It's often hard to get over someone, especially if you have to see them everyday. I would suggest surrounding yourself with friends and letting them know how you feel. They can help to take your mind off of the person that you're trying to get over.

I personally find it helpful to dive into a book. Probably harry potter, its good sometimes to dive into your own world. Just remember to not stay stuck in it.

Do your best to think how you would treat (him/her) if they were simply a friend, and work to implement that into how you react to seeing them every day. It will take a while, but it'll start to feel normal after a while!