How to get over someone you have to see everyday?
Rakune
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Mar 29, 2017
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A year ago, I was in a relationship with one of my classmates (meaning, we had the same classes together everyday). I didn't have any friends beside him and his friends. When we broke up, it was terrible. I was a mess for the first two weeks. I had no one to go to. However, I started befriending other people, who I had never really noticed through the whole school year. I would generally ignore my ex-boyfriend, unless if he wanted to ask me something. Of course, I would end up feeling like I wanted our old relationship back every time. However, I started to be content with new friends I had. I told them my issues and they just helped me out by joking around. Although I wasn't able to fully move on, I was happy with the life I had since I was doing well in school and had good friends.
Anonymous
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Sep 29, 2016
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Focus on other things and overtime they won't be as noticeable to you. Appreciate the present instead of reflecting on the past.
AuntieGinger
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Aug 10, 2016
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Time is a great healer. Trust that over time, it will get easier. In the interim, do what you can to keep contact to a professional minimum, have activities in your life that keep you away from this person, and realize that setbacks are only temporary.
genuineMist47
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Jan 1, 2017
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Having to get over anyone can be extremely difficult. Having to see that person everyday naturally makes it feel worse. Depending on how you have left things, whether you now hate each other, or are still friendly, will help determine the best way to get over them. Try to distract yourself, if they walk into the room, if you can, leave, even for a few minutes. If you can't, talk to a friend or a colleague, about anything. You will hear this all the time, but it does get easier in time. That doesn't help now, but just remember that you are strong, and you will get through this.
Anonymous
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Jan 25, 2017
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Do your best to distract yourself from the person. If you see them coming, don't stare or try to make them jealous. Instead, try to put them out of your mind and engage yourself in another task or conversation. Really try to immerse yourself in other activities and soon enough you'll be enjoying yourself so much that you won't even be phased by seeing the person.
lovingLynx89
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Aug 12, 2016
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Focus on yourself, clearly you are not together for a good reason.. stop wasting time on the past, move on and invest in the future!!
Anonymous
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Dec 1, 2016
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That is the toughest, I have to say. But maybe seeing him/her everyday you can realise how you are living separate lives from each other and though it sure hurts to see a special person, you are still managing to cope each day. Keep it up and let those enter into your life who are really worth staying in it.
Galina
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Dec 8, 2016
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Meditate on self love and when you feel loved, send good thoughts like waves of energy to the person you love. Just because that person doesnt belong to you, doesnt mean you have to stop loving him/her. Send love and then drop thoughts and carry on with your own life (on a daily basis if need be)
SocioDarlingListens
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Dec 31, 2016
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Try to cement their new role into your mind. When you see them don't think "my ex" think "my friend" or "my classmate". Eventually that's what they will become.
michaelp1976
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Aug 4, 2016
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Remember the good times to keep you at ease, but also remember why you're getting over them and use that to ease the times you see them.
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