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How to get over someone you have to see everyday?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 5, 2016
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By believing that they were in my life for a purpose and now that they have fulfilled that purpose they have to move on.
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Profile: comfortingCreature55
comfortingCreature55 on Mar 2, 2017
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I had/ have the same problem. My biggest hurdle is that (and I still dont know why) I feel embarassed in seeing that person. Knowing that they are in my same class, library, shop, etcetera. I dont know if you have this same reaction, but two things helped me the most. The first one is humour. We didnt talk for many months, but sometimes we had small talks when we met on the street. And I felt kinda more relaxed when we talked about funny things, we joked about other things in life, problems at university, weird things generally. Which made us laugh. That helped me breaking the ice and made me know that, since then when we met, there is a "lighter" atmosphere between us, and I automatically can focus on other things too. The second thing is, and Im gonna explain you better, that yes: they are not the only girl/boy on the planet. I couldn’t stand people telling me this, cause I want only that person and they are not in love with them unlike me. BUT: with this second concept I dont mean just that. Rather: I often noticed that this person kinda changed (in better) their behaviour towards me or that they just didnt embarass me anymore when I "showed" them that they really are not the only girl/boy on this planet. By talking, laughing, studying with other people of their same gender. Simply hanging out. It made the situation again lighter for "me", as I felt a bit less attached to this person, and this person really noticed that they hadnt that much power over me like before. Im personally still working on it, but I know that it has to do with constance and with time :) That doesnt mean you will get over immediately or that you “have” to be interested in these other people. It helps u cope more with the fact u have to see this person everyday. I wish you good luck
Profile: JessicaMae
JessicaMae on Aug 13, 2016
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The most important thing is simply to breath. No body is perfect. Remember that you will probably live 70-90+ years. Do not let this person ruin it or discourage you in any way. Be kind and treat others the way that you would personally want to be treated.
Profile: Nyssa2506
Nyssa2506 on Sep 21, 2017
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It's mind over matter. It's not easy, I agree. Had to go through this myself. Just sit down somewhere peaceful in solitude and talk to yourself. Why is it important to get over that person? What made you part ways? Do you love yourself enough to let this go & find peace & love within yourself? What more important things are there in the world than that person?.... and so on and so forth, Just empower yourself, make yourself strong and remember - you can do anything if you put your mind to it!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 14, 2017
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It's hard but eventually you will get over it. The process is long. But you should just accept the fact that the person is right there and that they won't go away anytime soon. Just be okay with it and sooner or later you'll see that their presence won't bother you anymore. They will become just another person in the room. You just have to accept it.
Profile: believe222
believe222 on Aug 25, 2016
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you just have to keep going with life , you will end up finding someone that wants you . just try not to look at that person and don't talk to that person.
Profile: Patty24
Patty24 on Aug 17, 2016
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Getting over anyone can be hard, especially if you were together for some time. Turn this time into focusing on yourself. Understand that It will be challenging not to think about that person after seeing them every day, but trust in your strength to overcome. Focus on how better things are without this person and use that energy to keep moving forward.
Profile: happyrosestar
happyrosestar on Sep 30, 2016
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You politely say good morning and only talk about relevant information and nothing else. You don't exchange any information about your personal life
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 3, 2016
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try not to over think about your personal past with them. focus on what you are there for not that specific person.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 7, 2016
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It can be hard, but sometimes you have to do things the hard way. You have to remind yourself constantly that if it was meant to be it would have been.
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