How to get over someone

Do not focus on the pain that they have left behind, but rather why your life is better without them. if you can not think of a single reason that your life is better without them then simply allow yourself to go through the emotions you are experiencing, but not to have them effect your daily life for more then a few days. it is going to hurt, but you dont have to let it hurt forever

Maybe there's a good reason you can never have a relationship with him or her, because they... ... have rejected you ... are too young ... are not culturally compatible ... are married or spoken for in any other way.

Get up under someone else ;) No, really. Sometimes distracting yourself works, but you have to remember to eventually sit back and evaluate your old relationship, why things didn't work and how you felt and now feel. Make sure to understand it wasn't for you and move along. Yes, easier said than done but it works for me. HOWEVER! I did not get up under some else for over a year after my breakup, but instead found a different kind of love with a friend of mine that almost served as a rebound.

You can distract yourself with things that you like to do. Get your mind of it. It may be temporary but it'll reduce everytime. Sports help me get my mind off of things because I'm so focused on the sport and I'm tired that I have no time or energy to be thinking about anything else.

accept that the person was a part of your life and that's gonna change whatever you do; drinking, drugs etc but what you can do is take it as an experience and look forward to welcoming new people into your life.

You don't, really. You go through the day, day by day. You smile and you pretend but they are always there at the back of your mind.

It will take time and effort to do so. Start with forgiving that some1 and yourself and know where you stand now. From there move forward to a better future.

accept the fact that the two of you were not meant for each other. move on and be happy. love yourself.

Breakups are never easy, but it helps to keep yourself busy. Take the time to focus on yourself. Do something you've always wanted to do and hang out with friends and family. Remember that you're not alone and that there are people who are there to support you through things like this.

I would say focus on your priorities (work, academics, family, friends, etc) and your personal growth