How to get closure from my ex? I feel I need it.

One way to possibly get closure from your ex would be to write about your feelings in a journal or in a letter. You wouldn't necessarily have to show him what you've written, but it gives you access to express your feelings without necessarily speaking to him. If you feel like you need to verbally tell him certain things to have closure, you could always do that as well, whether it's by calling, texting, or other ways. I hope this helps!

There's a poem that frequently comes to my mind as relationships ebb and flow in my life. Each time I reflect on it, I find a different meaning that helps me grow in the direction I need. http://motivationposters.com/image/cache/Block%206/0299-1500x1500.jpg

Inorder to do that you need to talk to your ex and finlize the situation in order for you to move on with your life

I am sure you dont neet it, you just need you! He is not going to make you feel better. Trust me, you can do this on your own

When you start loving someone that boy/girl becomes your lover. You give a tag on them and they become very important to you because of that tag. Now when you are no longer with the person you give them a tag of ex-lover. They still play an important role in your thoughts. The moment you remove the tag, and see them as just an individual and not think about the memories together you will feel less sad when you think of them. I have tried this and it has worked.

The only way to get closure is to talk to your ex. Ask the questions you want answers to. If your ex won't allow this than at least you know you tried.

Tell them that you feel like you need confirmation about it. If the person doesn't know this then things won't change. The best way to receive closure is to tell them how you feel and that you feel you need it.

Both of you should get together and have a small meeting confirming to each other that it is over. Be open to his thoughts and then accept its been done with

You can write a letter/journal about why it is good it has ended and why it is better if you go your separate ways. You can send the letter, rip it apart or burn it. It helped me.

Sorry to say but they may never happen. It depends on so many factors. How bad was the break up. Have you talked since. Is there still anger and resentment. So much.