How to forgive someone who cheated on you?

It can be very hard to forgive people and sometimes you have to decide what you want to do. Remember listen to you heart.

I believe that if the person truly hurt you through cheating then you need to weigh up whether it is worth going back to them and forgiving them. It is really about what is going to make you the happiest,

You can ask the reason why it happened. Make sure you get a proper answer to all of your questions. After that weigh if what he/she did to you means more than all the good time you had together. Are you able to live with that person knowing that at some point he cheated on you? Do you feel that beside that cheat you can still trust the person? If you find yourself thinking that you can trust that person again, that you can live with the fact that the cheating happened. If all the good times and memories meant more than that cheat... maybe that's the way to forgive and give a second chance to that person. Start a new thing with that person.

It's a hard thing to do, but forgiving then is forgiving you for trust them that much, you don't have always to forgive people because of them, but also because of yourself, you deserve your mind in piece, they deserve to see compassion and change, and you on top of all don't deserve being in hurt. So try how much you can to forgive the person, because maybe you think they don't deserve, but you do.

Forgiving someone who cheated on you is really hard. For me, I always go back to a cheater because they whisper sweet nothings into my ears. But now, I know that once a cheater, always a cheater.

I think there are two prerequisites to being able to answer this question. First you have to realize their choice has nothing to do with who you are. It was their choice. Secondly there is a difference between forgiveness and trusting them again. After these two steps are met it will be relitively easy to forgive then but then it has to be their choice to earn your trust back.

Pass more time with family or friends because they love you and support you when you are difficult moments and forgot about love for a time !

Forgive yourself first! After that, realize that it's not your fault and you're worth so much more than that.

Forgiveness is at once persona and universal. Personal in the sense that you need to be ready to sincerely forgive. Universal in the sense that it has the power to benefit everyone. Appreciating the true power of forgiveness, how it can heal, is the first step in being ready to offer it. But never feel guilty for not being ready to forgive.

It is never easy to forgive someone who broke your trust or worse, change your perception of love. We must first understand that not everyone would be like that and there will be people we can trust in our life. We must first acknowledge that it not your fault & it was your significant other's decision. Forgiving someone was never easy but with time, things will get better :)