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How to forgive someone who cheated on you?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 8, 2016
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Forgiviness is insid you. If you you're trapped in sorrow or anger it will only hurt. You have to brake the chains that latch you on to poisoning thoughts. Just because you forgave someone, it doesn't mean you'll get back together. It just your on terms with yourself.
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Profile: RobVL
RobVL on Jul 8, 2016
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The big big big thing here is that you should not forgive them just for the sake of forgiving. You should forgive them for your sake as well. No matter who says what, unless the other person is a heartless individual, whatever happened has hurt both parties in some form or another. Carrying resentment is never healthy. So forgive them, and let it go. It will make a worlds difference to you. Oh, and by the way, you don't have to tell someone face to face, or otherwise, that you forgive them ;)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 9, 2016
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Well.. forgive someone becausee when we don't forget someone.. its like we still giving them importance.. maybe we don't love them now.. but hate is there..and they don't even deserve your hatred.. forgive them.. so the thing which is holding you from moving on, would be not be there now. Forgive them and move on..
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Anonymous on Jul 13, 2016
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Know they are not meant for you. You are worth more. Don't be angry, just be at peace knowing someone else will be waiting for you.
Profile: pie
pie on Jul 16, 2016
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I personally wouldn't forgive them fully--I would forgive them for MYSELF. I analyze what happened. Why did they cheat? Why does it hurt me so much? What do I personally need to do to forgive, and how can I learn from what happened?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 17, 2016
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Dear, I have been cheated on in the past, and I started hating him for choosing someone else over me. One day I realized that hating your ex is a form of love - it means I still was not over him. I decided to forgive him because I wanted to eliminate the feelinge I had for him, and let go. I also forgave him because without him cheating on me I would have never grown as a human - he helped me to understand the pain of losing someone, which led me to become stronger. I met a wonderful man lately who loves me wholeheartedly, and I thank my ex for letting me go to discover this amazing man. I forgave him for teaching me the art of letting go.
Profile: ThaliaRaven
ThaliaRaven on Jul 17, 2016
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Say to yourself that you are better than them, you are stronger enough to forgive them, but never forget. Don't be mean, rude, don't hate them - just let go.
Profile: AireAllium
AireAllium on Jul 20, 2016
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Understand that you are feeling upset but be content by interacting with other positive individuals.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 24, 2016
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you don't, I've learned that the hard way, you might want to but people who cheat most likely never change.
Profile: uniqueMango45
uniqueMango45 on Jul 27, 2016
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Stop being with them immediately first, so you can remember to love yourself and can grow distant. Then take the time (whenever you're comfortable) to talk to them and remember they're only human. Life is challenging but you can do this!
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