How to forgive someone who cheated on you?
silverSnowflake65
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Jan 19, 2017
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Forgiving them is easy, forgetting is hard. You can forgive but can you trust again? Ask yourself if you truly care about the person, do you want to make it work and could you trust they wouldn't do it again. If the answer to any part of that is no, then you can forgive the mistake but it might be best for you to move on.
Revinjan
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Jan 25, 2017
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Its always acceptance , promises and all the other things . We can always forgive people for betraying us but being betrayed is as simple being stabbed in the back and you may live from those stabs but those scars wont disappear. So ... Forgiving is easy but living with those scars and being afraid that they may happen again is the hard part . It depends on you if you are willing to forgive and may add another scar
AravindSudev
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Jan 26, 2017
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In order to forgive this person firstly realise the fact that forgiveness is purely a personal affair. It happens within your mind. You dont have to say that you forgive or to behave with this person as you used to. What you say or do to this person is entirely upto the situation you are in.
To forgive just means to let go of the burden you are carrying against this person for you to feel lighter.
If you find that hard then that is because at some point in your mind you might believe that if you let go of the anger, this person might do it again. In fact the resentment you hold inside yourself has nothing to do with the outcome.
Forgiving someone doesnt mean forgetting the lesson
avanef
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Jan 26, 2017
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It's hard, I won't lie and say that you can just forgive someone when they do that. There's nothing justified about cheating, and you're almost cautious about them cheating on you again. You are better than that, being with someone who cheats on you and treats you like that. People usually don't forgive someone for cheating on them fully. They might allow them in their life and be friends with them, if any, but most of the time the chance to be together the way it was is a no.
CaptainObviouslyOblivious
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Feb 19, 2017
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Here's the thing about forgiving someone - You can forgive them, but you can never forget. Trust is a very frail, beautiful thing, and when it's been trod upon you can't go back to where you used to be. You have to be the one to decide if it's worth it, and worth moving past to commit to rebuilding that trust.
Anonymous
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Feb 25, 2017
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You have to let go.
You have to forgive because that's what life's about. Forgiveness is the key to all.
Sunshine201
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Mar 1, 2017
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You should forgive not because that person deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace. Firstly make clear to yourself the exact meaning of forgiveness for you, do you want to let the person to come in your life again or do you want to live without having any contact with that person, but without any grudges for him/her. You are taking a risk of trusting him/her again, in case you decide to be with that person, Either way you are accepting the person and making a decision of trusting again, it is hard but whatever you choose should make you feel better,
EricaAnne
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Mar 2, 2017
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You're not obliged to forgive someone who cheated on you because the damage done is irreversible. However, you can choose how you handle the situation. Are you going to make peace with the person, or are you going to take revenge? There are good ways and there are better ways to deal with negativity. Part of maturity is knowing when to let a matter rest, and when to take action. The person who cheated on you will face the consequences for his actions later on in life.
TisKimmyChii
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Apr 6, 2017
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Well it takes work but from both parties. You of course will have trust issues and that's reasonable because of what happened. However your partner needs to understand that they have to work to regain that trust and it doesn't just come back. It could take months to even years depending on the severity of what they've done. They have to be open about everything. Giving you full access to whatever you need to make you comfortable but you shouldn't hold it over their head ever chance you can. They made a mistake and they know it. They already feel bad for what they've done and continuing to bring it up will only cause more issues. Forgiveness is not the same as forgetting. You can forgive them for what they done but not forget. It takes work, time, and love for one another to move past this.
Donutgirl68
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Apr 9, 2017
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I would give them another chance. Make progress with them and let them know how I am feeling 100% at the time.
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