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How should I know when I'm over someone?

Profile: EmerisLochart
EmerisLochart on Jan 25, 2016
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If your over someone, you do not feel any need to please them. You might even have feelings for someone else, but either way you will feel happy.
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Profile: Deepgirl00
Deepgirl00 on Feb 1, 2016
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You should know your over somebody by not caring about them. Also by not talking or seeing them. Not being upset about them.
Profile: Ubby
Ubby on Feb 2, 2016
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I don't think there is any epiphany moment of being over someone. It just takes time, and the amount of time it takes differs for each person. Just try not to worry about it too much, and live your life to the fullest for yourself and with time you will heal.
Profile: AliciaJ
AliciaJ on Feb 23, 2016
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If you're over someone, what happened in the past would stay in the past. You may still feel happy when you think about the happy days, or feel hurt when the bad memories come up, but you'll know that your life goes on. You manage your life well, and you're willing to go out to date someone else committedly. You are able to accept that you have gone separate ways, and you do not constantly think about him/her. :)
Profile: Naisula
Naisula on Mar 22, 2016
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I have struggled with this question as well.. Am I truely over him?or is it that I am too busy,trying to avoid listening to my thoughts..occupying myself with anything and everything so I can forget his very existence..Then one day I woke up and it wasnt a struggle anymore ,the mention of his name dint steal away my peace,the thought of bumping into him at the supermarket aisle didn't startle my little heart...what he did or didn't do was no longer a concern for me...In that moment...I felt peace...a little clarity... I let out a little sigh of relief...its over ..truely over:)
Profile: Letspeace
Letspeace on Mar 20, 2017
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When the fact that they are not in your life does not disturb or negatively affect you anymore. You hold no grudge towards them. And whenever you remember them, you do not feel hatred but wish well for them wherever they are and whatever they might be doing.
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You'll know when you're over someone when your infatuation for their love has left you. I once felt that an ex of mine was my world, and when she left me it felt like the end of that world. However, time heals all wounds when it comes to relationships, and once my infatuation for her love had left me, I knew I could get on with my life freely.
Profile: avanef
avanef on Apr 3, 2017
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You'll notice because the things you once associated to that person, it won't hurt. You'll stop thinking about them, you'll kind of forget them in a sense. You'll just move on. But everyone differs and all. You'll be okay.
Profile: handsomePanda56
handsomePanda56 on Jul 2, 2018
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They just don’t matter as much anymore. You might not be completely hate them or not care. You can just care less and you genuinely change around them. Not having the tingles and sometimes the sympathy with things they do.
Profile: Chris1013
Chris1013 on Jul 31, 2018
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You will know when you are over someone when you don't have to ask if you're over them. If you are still asking then there's still a connection.
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