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How should I know when I'm over someone?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 31, 2014
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When you look at them and you don't feel that pang as much or perhaps you won't feel it at all. When hearing their name doesn't make you want to cry or smash a wall. When you remember everything, but don't want to go back.
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Profile: Sebii19
Sebii19 on Nov 24, 2014
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When you feel the peace inside yourself and when you stop thinking about the whatifs. When you're ok with you, and when you accept that it is over, and that there're nothing you can do about it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 11, 2016
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if you can go a whole day without having the desire to call them, or message them etc. Then i think you're ready to move on. In my opinion, sometimes you can never fully get over someone, you may be with the love of your life in 10 years but still care for your girlfriend from when you were 16. Everyone you've ever been with holds a special place in your heart no matter what :)))))
Profile: HelpfulHope
HelpfulHope on Dec 3, 2014
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When you can converse about them with ease example, when the pain you once felt had left your system and the worlds flow out with ease. When you stop checking their social media sites, something we're all guilty of. Just as you know when you're in love with someone, you know when you're over someone. Enjoy and embrace the company and attention of others.
Profile: taylorswarrior
taylorswarrior on Nov 25, 2014
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You should know when you're over someone when you find yourself not thinking about them anymore. Also when you find yourself not trying to see what they're up to all the time.
Profile: yourownaesthetic
yourownaesthetic on Dec 8, 2014
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You'll know your over someone when they no longer appear so perfect to you. They no longer keep you up at night, and you no longer notice everything they do. Speaking from my own experience of getting over someone, of course.
Profile: Arkelight
Arkelight on Dec 27, 2014
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I think the best tell-tale sign of this is when you find yourself thinking about that person a lot less.
Profile: brightHoney94
brightHoney94 on Jun 28, 2016
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You will no longer care about what they are doing or who they talk to. If they text or call you, it will be perfect to respond formally.
Profile: KristenBugg
KristenBugg on Nov 27, 2014
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When you stop thinking about them, worrying about them, and thinking of ways yo get them back. Life is to short to dwell over one person.
Profile: amiableAmy
amiableAmy on Jun 23, 2015
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There may not be one instant where you go - "Aha! I am finally over them!" It may happen gradually. You'll think of them less & less. Then, one day, you'll realize it's been 6 months since you've even thought about them.
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