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How long will it take me to get over them? What's the fastest way to stop caring about them?

Profile: PashT007
PashT007 on Apr 13, 2015
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Don't focus on getting over them, focus on becoming a better you. When you know that you are done the nest thing to do is to accept the situation for what it truly is and place your focus on your well being and wants.
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Profile: everythingisalright
everythingisalright on May 19, 2015
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Do activities! Think about what is good for yourself. And push yourself to do thing even if you don't want to.
Profile: GermanZebraCupcake
GermanZebraCupcake on Jun 15, 2015
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There is no set time for getting over somebody you loved. There is also no one set way to get over them either. I'm so sorry I don't have a single fix for getting over a past love, but allow yourself to grieve the end of the relationship. Don't try to rush yourself. :)
Profile: lovelyLynx18
lovelyLynx18 on Jun 21, 2015
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Like I said before, there are no timelines to get over someone. You will always care for them. It might not be as much as it once was but you will care about them. I had someone I love cheat on me and I still care for them. I don't love them anymore but I care about them.
Profile: wonderfulTurtle53
wonderfulTurtle53 on Sep 1, 2015
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Learn to be alone and enjoy it. Do things for yourself. Develop yourself and focus on only you. Do something new and exciting. Maybe try work on your health or fitness. Realise that being apart from them is the best thing for you and now you can actually move forward! Remember, you're never alone in how you feel. A lot of people are trying to get over someone too.
Profile: Arac
Arac on Sep 21, 2015
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Everyone is different when it comes to getting over someone, so there's no set time: It could be weeks, months or years. However, take comfort in fact that time heals all wounds: At first you'll think of them every day and it will hurt, but eventually a day will come when you realise you didn't think of them all day. Then a week, and eventually you won't think of them more than once or twice a year and it won't hurt like hell when you do. Just give it time.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 3, 2015
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i dont know who this them is but if you like music and have a goal as well then just focus towards accomplishing it and listen to motivational music life doesn't end if people leave so stop stressing too much :)
Profile: lexi2420
lexi2420 on Nov 16, 2015
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There is no set time to get over someone. The best way to begin healing is to focus on the positive areas of your life such as your friends, family, work, etc.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 15, 2015
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When you find yourself fresh out of a relationship, it is important to look at the future. If you are in an unhealthy relationship, it is crucial to recognize how important your feelings are and whether or not you are being treated appropriately. Once you have made the final decision to separate from your partner, it is important that you refrain from contacting them via text message or social media. It is best to remove anything that reminds you of them on a regular basis, such as any possessions of theirs or any of their social media that you may follow. There is no way to tell how long it may take to get over them, but you can speed the process up by keeping busy and being yourself. Keep doing things you enjoy and keep your eyes on the future! There will come a day when things reach a new normal, and you'll have learned from your experience along the way.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 29, 2015
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There's no timescale. Everything happens for a reason and one day you will wake up and be like yeah who
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