How do you feel a breakup should occur? what actions should each person take to simplify the process of seperating?

A Breakup should be a mutual affair. Both parties should say how they feel, why things did not work out for them, what they wished could have happened; or what was desired for in the relationship. Sometimes just communicating can make a world of difference.

A breakup is much simpler when both parties are agreed with it. Even if you or your partner doesn't want to breakup, you/they need to recognise that a relationship is a two-way thing. It will be much simpler if you both go about it in a friendly, accepting way and end on a good note.

Be blunt, be honest and be respectful. Have a face-to-face conversation and tell them that it'll probably be best for both of you if you could part your ways. NEVER try to pick a fight, blame the other person or say anything disrespectful, and DO expect the other person to feel a bit shocked. Also be clear about your intentions so that you don't leave them any false hope, because that could hurt them more. Give them and yourself time and space alone for recovery.

each sit down and talk about your feelings with each other this will result in a less violent breakup

A breakup must occur without problems. No argues, no shouts, no pain. It's ok to cry, but is more important to see your partner happy for maybe the last time. The process must be simplified by thanking each others' effort, love, comprehension, mistakes and especially the way that person makes you grow up in all ambits. A breakup must be a step forward!

When you breakup with someone, you two should both understand what you're about to do and do it maturely. Dealing with a breakup like grown ups means less drama and less pain. You two should meet in person and talk about it and get full closure. Much love!x

Breakups are not meant to happen a specific way. All of us feel different and react differently to heartbreak or ending a relationship even if it's mutual. We can't expect the other person to not act out if they are hurt. So just prepare yourself for that, if it ends and they are hurt simply allow them to feel hurt don't argue and make them hurt more. Remember you once loved this person and you should know that despite the reason for breaking up they still feel emotions as we all do. End it peacefully and allow the other end to grieve if they need without judgement.

I think one of the most important things to do is give the other person the respect of talking to them about it in person, if you feel it is safe to do so. Opening that line of communication, and letting both sides talk can help both sides get closure, and make things a little more amicable. Some times relationships don't work out, and that's ok. If you're feeling this way, there's a good chance they sense something is off too.

According to me both the partners should sit together and reflect on their relationship. The highs and lows, the challenges faced, and try to understand and acknowledge the reasons why going separate ways is better than staying together. Also, if we understand that breakup doesn't really mean that you don't care about the other person, it just means that you still care for that person but staying together is not the best way foward for anyone, will help the individuals to deal with emotional conflict post the breakup.