How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

Have you considered how and why you feel this way ? Perhaps make a pros and cons list or sit down and talk to your boyfriend about your feelings. If you don’t feel comfortable doing so then seek advice from a relative or counsellor. Take time out for yourself as you may just be needing to focus on yourself or need a little space. What you’re feeling is natural but if you have made up your mind then sit down calmly and talk about it first. Another way is to explain how you’re feeling and why and maybe hear your boyfriends side of the story

Be honest and straight forward, if you procrastinate it only makes you start to wonder if you really should leave him. If he asks for a reason why, you don't have to give him one. It can be very difficult especially if you've been together for a long time, but if you don't want to be in that relationship anymore you don't have to. Don't let him guilt trip you into staying with him. Be gentle but firm when breaking the news, he might be sensitive. Being honest with yourself is important when doing it, think of why your leaving him if he tries to change your mind

Honesty is key! Tell him how you feel and why you don’t want to be with him. Tell him that your decision doesn’t take away from the times you’ve already had together and that you wish him the best(if you do). Tell him you’re sorry to hurt him but your mind is made up and you have to follow your heart to be happy. Say goodbye! The more you drag it out the more it hurts everybody. Don’t sugar coat the truth because it’s not going to do anybody any good. Hopefully you both learn from the experience and carry on as a better person in your next relationship.

It’s just a matter of being honest. Tell him how you feel and show that you are doing what is best for you. It can be really hard sometimes to think that you may be hurting him or letting him down but sometimes you just need to look out for yourself and do what’s best for you. I find that talking about how you are feeling with him can be a really good way to assess the situation. That way you are both on the same page and can communicate honestly with each other. There is no malicious intent it’s just a matter of doing what’s right for you

There is no best way to tell except to address the actual, factual issues why you don't want to be with him. You may choose to write an elaborate email, or a handwritten letter, or whatever works for you. Giving in writing helps the person to get time for it to sink in and most of the major fights/disagreements can be avoided in this scenario. List out to him clearly, that you may still be in love with him, but you don't feel driven to be with him. You may choose to tell him his good qualities too, and explain how you are just a changed person now with time.

There is multiple ways. First of you can ask yourself, what do you feel more comfortable with? Do you feel more comfortable with: A) just straight on telling him. B) Telling him nicely, then explaining why. C) Just leave without him knowing. And just do what you feel is best. I'll be here for you. Keep me posted! :) If you feel like this just won't do and your way to scared to try it, then we can go with something else. Just think to yourself, do you really want to break up? You know you better than anyone else. Also, you know him better than anyone else too! So what do you think will hurt him more, if you don't care about hurting him, then it doesn't matter. If you do, make sure you can talk, and explain to him in a good manner. Whatever makes you feel more comfortable do it! :)

Look here, I don't really know how to turn this idea to words, but I'll try my best. But when I say this, I really mean it,because this is not some kind of a joke. you are a very nice person, with lots of good qualities, and it is so clear that you have a good future ahead. but I am not the one for you. I understood this ,and decided to tell you this after giving it a very good consideration. My darling,let's end this here. You will find someone better than me, very soon.And on that day you will realise that I was right. Take care of yourself.

In this situation, the best thing to do is be straight to the point and honest with him. If he found out you were thinking about it for ages, he’d be more hurt by the fact he was led on for so long. By the time you eventually decide to tell him he may have already been over it if you’d told him how you felt immediately. In my opinion you should discuss any thoughts and doubts immediately with your partner so as to avoid as much pain and prevent prolonging the emotional hurt as much as possible. It’s better to tell him as abruptly and soon as possible. It’s whats best for the both of you.

you be honest and point out the reasons why you dont want to be with boyfriend any more , it will give him some understanding of why the split and also you might be able to stay friends after splitting up and least you can be friends rather than just part and not speak anymore,i think honesty is best policy as he might not want split , and its best comming from yourself and not second person,you can only be honest and give reasons why relationship not working , you never know he might agree with what you say to him after all

It is a hard thing to do. It is. But I think that you should definitely do that. Do not postpone it because it can get worse. You shouldn't feel like it is your fault because it is not. If you don't feel comfortable in that relationship then you shouldn't be in it. Just take a few deep breaths and calm down. Explain to him gently why you don't want to be with him (or her). Don't start a fight or anything and speak to him directly about the problem in your relationship. Don't gossip or anything because it will get worse. And if he still doesn't understand don't stress about it. You tried to end things on some good terms and it is great. If he gets angry let him be.