How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)
Anonymous
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May 18, 2016
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There's no easy way of telling someone that, so i think honesty is key here. Don't make up a reason, tell him the truth. Feelings change and so do people.
nuuuris
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May 20, 2016
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Well that's such a harsh thing to say and it could hurt his feelings, try to be honest and take it easy, I mean, try to be calm and not rude. If you are pretty sure about this, you should tell me and explain him why and what goes wrong, maybe he feels the same as you! good luck dear and if you need anything with it, let me know!
MysticGuardian
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May 29, 2016
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Take him to a quiet space where you both can feel comfortable and gently explain to him some of the reasons you don't feel that you should be together anymore. Make sure you are certain and confident in your views as many breakups are not usually mutual and he may take some convincing. Sooner rather than later is always better and staying friends (without leading them on) is always a better resolution.
SimplyRose1234
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Jun 2, 2016
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tell him honest what you feel, talk nicely and try to treat him how you would want to be treated. If he gets mad, try to stay calm.
ShadowedXHunted
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Jun 2, 2016
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Be caring in the way you word things and calmly start the conversation about your feelings and how they developed over time. Take this time to hear some of his thoughts and see if he can agree on any valid points you might bring up - as to why it may be a good idea to end the relationship. If it doesn't go as well, then just say you need to do it for your own personal reasons of not being in an unhealthy relationship.
steelnerve
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Aug 7, 2016
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Shoot it straight away. Tell the guy its not gonna work anymore. That you need to be free of him, or if its a flaw, work with him to alleviate it. Good relations are just like good recipes. They need an investment of time and willingness to improve life. If the two of you are failing in translating your good intentions, or finding a lack of intent, then address it straight away.
Chanrda
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Oct 27, 2016
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if you right now say it to him then it ain't will be easy for him to accept that you don't want to be with him anymore, he will try his best to get you back as like before, so here you need to take some important steps to remove some feelings from his mind at first, and You don't need to tell that directly or suddenly, time will do that for you, just be sure to make some distance between the relationship, give him less time if you don't like to be with him anymore. just decrease the moment you used to stay with him each day, reply to his call but don't give him long attentions talk in short and for just few minutes, it is true and i do believe that time gap is something which cant be denied. if you make distance between the relationship then it is the easiest and the less stressed method out there none of you both will get hurt by this. after 1 - 2 month say to him that a typical line - ( i don't think like things are going well between you and me good, and i don't want to be with you anymore please forget me) he will then be able to understand you
Anonymous
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Nov 17, 2016
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Be honest and tell him exactly how you feel in a calm state. Honesty is the best policy in any situation.
genuineMist47
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Jan 1, 2017
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Honesty is the best policy in a situation like this. It may seem harsh, but it is true. I recently broke up with my partner of over 3 years. I spent at least half of that time debating whether or not I should, that maybe it would all just 'work out'. In the end I just ended up hurting him more. If you truly do not feel love for him anymore, and if you truly do not want to be with him, you need to be brutally honest. Yes, it may hurt, both you and him, but it will be for the best in the long run.
Anonymous
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Jan 29, 2017
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It is difficult to end a relationship, and no matter how you communicate with your boyfriend that you want to end it he will probably be upset. This is okay - many relationships end. The best way to do this is to be honest, but empathetic with him and his situation. Let him know that he was an important part of your life, but the relationship is no longer working for you. Remember, staying in a relationship that you are not invested in isn't healthy or fair to either of you. Get him in a relaxed, casual setting and have an honest dialogue with him.
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