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How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

Profile: BeBeUnicorn
BeBeUnicorn on May 20, 2016
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Dont sugar code anything, just say it straight up. Being honest is so much more rewarding, then being nice and not getting to the point, if you feel that way, just say it to him. I mean, if you dont have any feelings for him and still is in a relationship with him, you are lying to yourself and to him and it is better to tell honest truth, then a sweet lie.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 12, 2016
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Be honest about your feelings with him. Show sympathy and explain your reasoning behind your decision.
Profile: avanef
avanef on Apr 20, 2017
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You let him know, you be honest and you just communicate it with him. If you are not happy anymore or you don't want him anymore, you need to let him know because you matter too.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 5, 2016
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Be very straight forward. Honesty is always key in a relationship even when ending it.
Profile: Strauberryjam
Strauberryjam on Jul 6, 2016
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You should just ask him about something that happened/tell him. It's not bad to tell them how your feeling.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 4, 2016
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I think when you are in a committed relationship you need to be honest with one another and if you are genuinely not happy and do not want to be with your partner anymore break it to them in the nicest way possible you can sit them down talk about it with them gently, explain your reasons for doing so, your not a bad person for doing this, Many people break up for different reasons , imagine it was your partner wanting to break up with you would you prefer it if they was honest an told you or kept on being in a relationship with you ?
Profile: OfficialJoseph
OfficialJoseph on Jul 8, 2017
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Okay, first, you need to think about it if you really want to end your relationship with him, second, if you already thought about it, and your answer is "yes, I don't want to be with him anymore!" then it's time to talk to him personally and tell him what you are feeling. He will be very confused but don't worry, you have reasons! So tell him your reasons and talk, after you talk, you can walkout. Don't be angry with him even if he reacts madly. :)
Profile: coffeeprincess
coffeeprincess on Jun 22, 2016
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Just do it. That's the best advice I can give. Just do it, and (as long as you're sure breaking up with him is the right choice) do it sooner rather than later. It will be hard; it will be messy; it'll be heartbreaking for the both of you. But the sooner you tell him, the sooner you both can begin to heal and eventually move on.
Profile: gentleVision89
gentleVision89 on Jul 8, 2016
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First think about what you have decided clearly, if you still want to go ahead with breaking up then calm down talk to him and tell him that things are not working out how you thought it would be and tell him you would love to keep in touch even after the separation.
Profile: AlwaysPeace34
AlwaysPeace34 on Jun 17, 2016
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Start out by first explaining that the relationship isn't working out and explain why for example if its a long distance relationship explain that not seeing each other and not communicating with each other is the problem. And let him know that you cared about them while in the relationship.Also meet up and let them know don't do it in text or by phone or email because he might feel hurt and/or disrespected
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