How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

This one is tough, breaking up is never easy. That being said, sometimes its best to just come out and say it, talk to them, in person (If possible I understand the issues of Long distance as well.) Don't just drop an email or text, this is like a cop out, you cared about this person enough at one point, they deserve to hear you or see you say it. He will ask why, ask yourself if you're ready to give him an answer. But the best way to do it is, just to do it, like a band aid, if you're having these thoughts, its most likely he's picked up the signs and can sense it even if he won't admit it. Do not try and fight with him about it, fight's never lead to good places, and usually prolong the relationship beyond the point it should be. Most importantly, be honest, don't give him the spiels of "Its me not you." et cetera et cetera, you're better than this is, and most often he's worth more than a spiel. I hope this helps!

Explain to him your situation and why the relationship is not doing justice for you or helping you become who you want to be. Be kind. Do not blame.

Just explain to him as truthfully and straightforward as you can. Give him a safe space to ask you questions as I'm sure he will and answer those as honestly as you can without hurting his feeling too much. :) Hope it all goes well

From my experience, breaking up face to face, if possible, is already a good basis. It would be nice to tell them at the end that if they have questions, they can message you in 3 days or something and you can meet up face to face. Remember that this talk can be good for closure for the both of you, but be careful of your own emotions and wellbeing as well.

First understand WHY you don't want to be with him. If it is because of principles, beliefs, then see that through. If it is because of the way he treats you or talks to you. Let him know that. But if it is because you feel he cannot provide things on a material or financial level, emotional level, let him know that too. Breaking up is hard to do. But to delay it delays the pain it does not stop it. It just procrastinates his pain and makes your pain greater with time.

Well , that would be the best way to tell him in real life , not over social media or something like that , but if you know that wouldn't be good or you wont be able to tell him at real life than , a social media would be a good. But at first you have to think are you 100% sure that you want to abort your relationship.

Be honest, firm, but gentle. Explain why you no longer want to be with him. Bring him to a safe quiet place where you feel comfortable to talk. When you are done be considerate of how he feels. Give each other space and room for understanding. However, don't compromise your feelings if your boyfriend takes it badly and don't let them guilt you into staying. All in all just be honest and talk it out.

Being honest even though it affects both you and him is beneficial to you both. He deserves closure and you deserve to go after what you want.

You can be honest with him, talk in a clear and concise manner. Plan ahead of what you're going to say (make notes beforehand - if you think this will help you). Explain why you are breaking up and mention that you have to do what's best for you.

You should consider he is human and that will hurts him, say it in a nice way and from inside just accept his reaction and never take it personal, he may be shocked and out of control. And when you say it never go with evidences that he is not enough for you, just keep the conversation about the future not the paste.