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How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

Profile: Joner2016
Joner2016 on Nov 3, 2016
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Just call him and tell him in person. You first point out the positive things he's having then continue with the reasons you want to move on and make a request to respect your choice.
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Profile: gentleForever34
gentleForever34 on Nov 5, 2016
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You should ask ur boyfriend to meet u and tell him everything how you feel and tell him why you dont want to be with him. Talk in a polite manner and make him realise that there is no pint in being together if you are not willing.
Profile: prettygrlnay
prettygrlnay on Nov 5, 2016
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sit him down and tell him how you feel so he can understand where you coming from and tell him you don't want him no more and that hope he will understand!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 10, 2016
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You should just be honest with him. Expect him to be in shock and hurt but in the end you are saving him from later pain.
Profile: SleepyWillow54
SleepyWillow54 on Nov 10, 2016
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Be honest. It can be a tumultuous time dealing with the loss of someone who was once a big part of your life. But if you have made up your mind and honestly believe it's for the best, then find the time where you two meet in person and express exactly how you feel. Clarify whatever needs clarifying but continue to stand firm with your decision. "To fall in love is by chance. To fall out of love is by choice." Good luck!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2016
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It may be challenging but honesty is only fair to you and him. It will set your stress free and you can move on
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Anonymous on Nov 12, 2016
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You need to be honestly, if you don't want stay with him, be honest and say the truth, it will make him sad but he need to know just the truth
Profile: patientRabbit30
patientRabbit30 on Nov 12, 2016
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I have recently experienced something like this, you will be better telling him in person calmly with reasons and ask to be friends, rather than doing it via phone. That way you can make sure that they are OK and also you will receive a better reaction. Choose a private place to tell him.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 25, 2016
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Gently ask him how he feels. See if he feels the same as you, because if he does it will be easy. But he he really loves you, you will feel worse knowing that you are living to yourself and others. It may be hard, all of them are, but you can get through it.
Profile: charmingYellow14
charmingYellow14 on Dec 7, 2016
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Be honest! Tell him how you feel tell him that what was working is no longer working and your done wasting your time.
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