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How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 21, 2016
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Is there any particular reason? If so, sit him down when he is in a neutral mood, not particularly happy but not stressed or upset. Bring up your recent thoughts in a non-accusational way. And simply tell him calmly you think it would be better for both of you if you go your separate ways.
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Profile: Officalshakira
Officalshakira on Jul 21, 2016
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" I know that we've had a good time and I know that you love me but, I think it would be best if we went our separate ways because I dont feel the same way as I felt when we first got together."
Profile: Sierra2018
Sierra2018 on Jul 23, 2016
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Honesty is the best policy with anything you do. If you are close with him, he will hopefully respect your honesty about the situation.
Profile: ACESiT
ACESiT on Jul 27, 2016
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If you don't want to be with him anymore, he probably deserves for you to be as honest as possible without being brutal.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 30, 2016
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I think the best way to do this is to his face, but not rudely, just explain that you're not intended anymore and this relationship wasn't what you were expecting
Profile: PrincessCeleste87
PrincessCeleste87 on Aug 2, 2016
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Break the news to him in a gentle manner. Enumerate his positive qualities, but tell him that you don't feel that the relationship is not working between you anymore.
Profile: fallenangelxo
fallenangelxo on Aug 3, 2016
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You have to be honest with him. Tell him you just don't feel the same way about him that he does about you, and that relationship is over.
Profile: joyfulApple66
joyfulApple66 on Aug 3, 2016
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Sometimes it is best to do this face to face as you can explain to him why you feel this way.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 5, 2016
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You approach him calmly and discuss the reasons why your relationship isn't making you happy anymore
Profile: Brandi4life
Brandi4life on Aug 6, 2016
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Just sit him down (in private, no texting or email or face time) face to face and say that you have lost feelings for him and you don't think it would be fair to him if you stay in a relationship you are not into.
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