How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

First of all try to avoid doing it over the phone, but i would suggest to just cut to the point and say gently what is bothering you

It's best to be honest even if it would hurt him. There's nothing more painful than breaking up with someone by telling a lie

Well you simply tell him what is going on, you don’t want too strong him along. You have a personal one on one conversation in person and you explain too him why you don’t think the relationship is working anymore

Its better to just come out and say it rather than wait and lead him on. Say it in the nicest way possible but dont confuse them.

I understand you’re struggling with telling your boyfriend you’d like to leave him. I think you should maybe have a sit down face to face conversation and just tell each other how you feel.

There is no easy way to break this news to anyone. You are just going to have to tell him. Telling him upfront is better than leading him on or just distancing yourself.

First off, I know this is difficult, but necessary. Begin by being open and honest about why. Avoid cliches like "it's not you, its me" as they can just rub salt in the wound. Don't beat around the bush, just tell him the truth. Accept that it will hurt, for both of you, but hold your ground. If you feel this way, there's a reason and you can't let yourself fall back into a toxic relationship just because it's hard. Good luck, and I'm sorry you have to go through this.

I think the kindest thing you can do to allow him and yourself closure, is to be honest about how you are feeling

Kindness is key. You have to make yourself clear about whatever you say. Don't be rude. Explain to him why that thought came to your mind. Apologizing is important. Make an understanding environment and help him through it. Everybody deserves an explanations. Leaving him without a reason shouldn't be something you should consider. There must be a reason obviously for you to feel like you don't need your boyfriend anymore. Sometimes it does happen. But how you take situations from there is what matters. It's important to make sure he's okay with it. Be calm and nice. In the end, it's not my decision and not my answer to give. This is just what I feel, it's your life. So choose what suits you best.

The best way to do this is to be straightforward, tell him your relationship isn't working out well. Hiding and waiting can be more painful for both sides. so the best thing to do is to tell him in a appropriate respected way. For example you can use words like "sorry, I don't want to hurt you, but it isn't working out well." Breakups are always hard but we can get through them. So don't be afraid to tell your honest opinion to someone. If you need more help please don't hesitate to text me or any of the listeners in 7 cups